My mil is driving me nuts.. . she is obsessed with my DD. She wants to see her everyday and play with her… How extreme? She will wake my DD up if she is sleeping.
yday was crazy, when I got home at 616pm, DD was awake and MIL claimed she don’t want to sleep. Fine.. cos she just finished her feed at 5pm. At 730pm, DD finished her feed again and wanted to sleep, so I put her in her baby cot and went to toilet. When I came out, MIL and FIL have already removed her from her cot and asking her to play with them. When I tried to tell them that she needs to sleep, my MIL told me babies don’t need to sleep so much… Before that when DD cannot finish her milk, she said babies cannot finish nvm. Hellooooo, if babies don’t drink milk, don’t sleep, what should they be doing? It ws already 8plus and you can see my DD ‘d eyes a bit swollen. They didn’t leave till 930pm and DD KO-ed at 945pm!!! She didn’t sleep from 4pm till 930pm!!! She almost missed her 1030pm feed cos she was exhauasted… finally make her drink at 1130pm….Oh did i mentioned i will not get a chance to go near my DD when both of them are around?? I am very very pissed..
Actually my mum is the one taking care of the kid but each time my mil comes, she will tell me my mum to go home! And in front of my mum, MIL will be brainwashing my 4.5mth old baby that she must go to her house every Sunday to play with her and FIL… a serious case of jealousy
How to tell my mil not to come to my house as and when she likes? She duplicated the house key using my hubby’s and when I was at home, it was still ok. Now I am back working, she will come to my house to clean my house, do laundry etc.. I know I may sound crazy cos isn’t it nice to have a free maid? But I don’t like the fact she come as and when she likes and touch my stuff, shift furniture…Is my freaking house right?! And I like it messy and dirty ok!
She wants to take care of the kid but she refused to do it my way and she is also working partime what!.. She want to feed her solids/water … all the things I said no… throw away my breast milk, want to use cotton bud sticks to clear her ears !!
So I brought my DD to my mum’s place in the mornings and she showed up at my mum;s place!!!!!!! How to tell her not to do that? I asked my hubby to speak to her but he is afraid of hurting her feelings… how!!!!!!!!!!
yday was crazy, when I got home at 616pm, DD was awake and MIL claimed she don’t want to sleep. Fine.. cos she just finished her feed at 5pm. At 730pm, DD finished her feed again and wanted to sleep, so I put her in her baby cot and went to toilet. When I came out, MIL and FIL have already removed her from her cot and asking her to play with them. When I tried to tell them that she needs to sleep, my MIL told me babies don’t need to sleep so much… Before that when DD cannot finish her milk, she said babies cannot finish nvm. Hellooooo, if babies don’t drink milk, don’t sleep, what should they be doing? It ws already 8plus and you can see my DD ‘d eyes a bit swollen. They didn’t leave till 930pm and DD KO-ed at 945pm!!! She didn’t sleep from 4pm till 930pm!!! She almost missed her 1030pm feed cos she was exhauasted… finally make her drink at 1130pm….Oh did i mentioned i will not get a chance to go near my DD when both of them are around?? I am very very pissed..
Actually my mum is the one taking care of the kid but each time my mil comes, she will tell me my mum to go home! And in front of my mum, MIL will be brainwashing my 4.5mth old baby that she must go to her house every Sunday to play with her and FIL… a serious case of jealousy
How to tell my mil not to come to my house as and when she likes? She duplicated the house key using my hubby’s and when I was at home, it was still ok. Now I am back working, she will come to my house to clean my house, do laundry etc.. I know I may sound crazy cos isn’t it nice to have a free maid? But I don’t like the fact she come as and when she likes and touch my stuff, shift furniture…Is my freaking house right?! And I like it messy and dirty ok!
She wants to take care of the kid but she refused to do it my way and she is also working partime what!.. She want to feed her solids/water … all the things I said no… throw away my breast milk, want to use cotton bud sticks to clear her ears !!
So I brought my DD to my mum’s place in the mornings and she showed up at my mum;s place!!!!!!! How to tell her not to do that? I asked my hubby to speak to her but he is afraid of hurting her feelings… how!!!!!!!!!!