Godness, i didnt know many still face the same problem as me I totally understand how you feel and how you wish to kill your MIL. Let me tell you my side of story. When i was pregnant, im like the king. MIL will be cooking bird nest for me, talk to me so nicely. Whenever my husband and i reach home, i will call her'mother' and she will replied back. HAHA, here comes the wonderful thing. My bb girl was born on the 4th of feb, and can you imagine, on the day of discharge, she actually told my mom, 'hey you dont need to go, i go can already' i find that it was so rude to do that, and even if so, i dont need her to come ! As im doing my confinement at my own place, can you imagine that she has been coming by my house since then?! Can you imahgine how irritating that is. Worst off, when bb is sleeping nicely in the sarong or on the bed, she will carry her up ! And now my baby needs people to carry when she wants to sleep. I couldnt explain how irritating she is when she kept ordering me to clean the baby eyes as her tears duct have not been opend,thats why there is always shit in her eyes. She has been always repeating the same thing when she comes over to my place. She works for her husband and always claim that she is very busy, so why do you keep wanting to visit when you are that busy ! Im getting so fed up even when typing all this.
Even when im pregnant, i'd have to visit my gynae for the regular checkups. Can you imagine, she is always there without fail ? For my entire checkup, she is always following us. And even when it comes to talking and asking the doctor question,she is always the one commenting. Even my gynae showed me a face of irritation. She is always asking the same old bloody question, can pregnant woman drink cold drinks ? When i did the urine test each time of my visit, my sugar level is always quite high, so it was suspecting of diabetes. And all the time before my diabetes check, she keep commenting' haiya ask you dont drink so much sweet things' and in fact i did not even drink any sweet stuff that day. After my glucose check, i was not diagonese with diabetes, then she keopt on asking my gynae, oh so some pregnant woman is like that one ah. OMG !
After a week of baby dischagr, we have to bring bb for her checkup. She insist on following again. And she carry her all the way and didnt give me the change to do that. So i headed to do her registration, she was outside carrying the bb and picking up phone calls. So the nurse requested me to carry bb in to check weight,she insist on carrying and not leeting me carry her. where on earth is there such sickening MIL ?
I could not tell my husbadn as he is being controlled by his mom due to monetary issues. I could only rant off all this to my own mother who actually detest my MIL. SAVE ME FROM THIS AGONY !
Even when im pregnant, i'd have to visit my gynae for the regular checkups. Can you imagine, she is always there without fail ? For my entire checkup, she is always following us. And even when it comes to talking and asking the doctor question,she is always the one commenting. Even my gynae showed me a face of irritation. She is always asking the same old bloody question, can pregnant woman drink cold drinks ? When i did the urine test each time of my visit, my sugar level is always quite high, so it was suspecting of diabetes. And all the time before my diabetes check, she keep commenting' haiya ask you dont drink so much sweet things' and in fact i did not even drink any sweet stuff that day. After my glucose check, i was not diagonese with diabetes, then she keopt on asking my gynae, oh so some pregnant woman is like that one ah. OMG !
After a week of baby dischagr, we have to bring bb for her checkup. She insist on following again. And she carry her all the way and didnt give me the change to do that. So i headed to do her registration, she was outside carrying the bb and picking up phone calls. So the nurse requested me to carry bb in to check weight,she insist on carrying and not leeting me carry her. where on earth is there such sickening MIL ?
I could not tell my husbadn as he is being controlled by his mom due to monetary issues. I could only rant off all this to my own mother who actually detest my MIL. SAVE ME FROM THIS AGONY !