Yes..when we were dating, usually he treat me, but I treat sometimes..so I guess this is when he thought couples should share..Well, I feel that guys should be more gentleman and offer to pay in full for wedding and child delivery.. cos this is when we ladies will feel special and loved (hope I am not asking too much)....and I do agree that child expenses should be share.. I am just upset that my hubby does not console me when I am sad...and he insist that he is right and I am unfair to do comparison (to ask him pay all)... I guess I need to adjust my expectation.....Is it wrong to compare? Else, I am like a frog in the well..