bingxu3
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i an new here so this the story, i am a young mum with 2 kids, dis yr would have been my 7yr of marriage but my SO left the family last sept.
Now hes staying at his mums place with his mistress, i am thinking of divorce cause my inlaws does not care at all about me or the kids, best things is his other woman use to be his younger bro girlfriend.
In 2006 i ever allowed my brother in law and his then gf my so current gal to stay at my flat cause they said that they needed to use my com for some project purpose, then they did not even leave when thier project was done i kept quiet and hinted many times to my so that time to ask them to leave.
The breaking point came when my eldest went and lock the gal dog in the toilet, and she wanted to hit my son, i of cuase pulled him away while my stupid so jus push the son and told the gal u want hit u hit la, then i realise something not right le, had a argument which lead to a fight, my so did not even help me he just atand and watch but my bro in law tried to stop and after that i told my so to ask them to move bac, which they did.
Then a few mths later even my so move bac to his mum, i do not deny that i do still wish to save the family cause i do not wish my kids to grow up in a broken family, but things have gone to a point where the mistress had even called my phone to threathen me.
Just this yr the day before chu xi ye my eldest got very sick and i called my so for help and he told i am not free you settle yourself and i heard that gal in the background saying ask her to stop calling you la the kids are not your problem anymore, i got angry of cause and just hang up.
i need to know how to go about divorcing him, and i am afriad i may even lose the roof over my head
:nah:
Now hes staying at his mums place with his mistress, i am thinking of divorce cause my inlaws does not care at all about me or the kids, best things is his other woman use to be his younger bro girlfriend.
In 2006 i ever allowed my brother in law and his then gf my so current gal to stay at my flat cause they said that they needed to use my com for some project purpose, then they did not even leave when thier project was done i kept quiet and hinted many times to my so that time to ask them to leave.
The breaking point came when my eldest went and lock the gal dog in the toilet, and she wanted to hit my son, i of cuase pulled him away while my stupid so jus push the son and told the gal u want hit u hit la, then i realise something not right le, had a argument which lead to a fight, my so did not even help me he just atand and watch but my bro in law tried to stop and after that i told my so to ask them to move bac, which they did.
Then a few mths later even my so move bac to his mum, i do not deny that i do still wish to save the family cause i do not wish my kids to grow up in a broken family, but things have gone to a point where the mistress had even called my phone to threathen me.
Just this yr the day before chu xi ye my eldest got very sick and i called my so for help and he told i am not free you settle yourself and i heard that gal in the background saying ask her to stop calling you la the kids are not your problem anymore, i got angry of cause and just hang up.
i need to know how to go about divorcing him, and i am afriad i may even lose the roof over my head
:nah: