Yesterday was my birthday. I found out that my gal was telling lies abt her lunch box. I talked to her very nicely for almost half an hour and only get myself more confused. Then only I realized she got her story mixed up and i asked if she lied, she said yes. I got really angry and asked her why she told lies. She only kept crying. Thereafter, she wrote on a piece of paper "Mummy, I don't like you"
Thinking that was the end of it, and I told hubby not to bring up the matter today. So we had happy hours today, had lunch outside and had a peaceful day today. She was practiczlly happy today and passed happy and good remarks.
Then just now, I was joking with her that we shall go to the library tomorrow instead of swimming. Library is also one of her fav spots. She started to throw tantrum, throw the pillow on me, and kicked the chair towards my direction. She later wrote on the paper "I hate you mummy"
I hv failed in my parenting. It's really pain deep down my heart.
Thinking that was the end of it, and I told hubby not to bring up the matter today. So we had happy hours today, had lunch outside and had a peaceful day today. She was practiczlly happy today and passed happy and good remarks.
Then just now, I was joking with her that we shall go to the library tomorrow instead of swimming. Library is also one of her fav spots. She started to throw tantrum, throw the pillow on me, and kicked the chair towards my direction. She later wrote on the paper "I hate you mummy"
I hv failed in my parenting. It's really pain deep down my heart.