pipi
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hi, i'm still wondering how to really work this thing. so i can share with people out there and really get your opinions. as stated in my profile, i'm a single YOUNG mother of a 2year old daughter, Miaa. and i'm currently pregnant with my second child. no, i'm not wit Miaa's father anymore, he has issues, so i left him, which was 2years ago, when i was still pregnant with Miaa. after that, i just stop hearing from him, anyways. i'm currently with a guy now which i'm pregnant with his baby.
the problem is, what should i do ? we're both 17 this year. he's stressing me that he still wants to continue school and not go for his National Service. I OBVIOUSLY WANT TO KEEP THE BABY. he keeps on telling me that i have to think about what i really want to achieve in life. but my answer will always be, 'i'm happy taking care of Miaa and i know my family and Miaa will be happy too if they know there's a baby coming their way' i would be more than happy to have another bundle of joy, i love kids. but do you think it's fair for him if i do keep the baby ? he wants to baby to have a good life in the future. he has been a really good daddy towards Miaa. but, i just cannot bare to abort this baby if he really wants to continue school and cannot effort to raise a baby now. i'm confused :'(
please tell me what i should do. i would really love to hear it from young mums/single mums. thank you <3
the problem is, what should i do ? we're both 17 this year. he's stressing me that he still wants to continue school and not go for his National Service. I OBVIOUSLY WANT TO KEEP THE BABY. he keeps on telling me that i have to think about what i really want to achieve in life. but my answer will always be, 'i'm happy taking care of Miaa and i know my family and Miaa will be happy too if they know there's a baby coming their way' i would be more than happy to have another bundle of joy, i love kids. but do you think it's fair for him if i do keep the baby ? he wants to baby to have a good life in the future. he has been a really good daddy towards Miaa. but, i just cannot bare to abort this baby if he really wants to continue school and cannot effort to raise a baby now. i'm confused :'(
please tell me what i should do. i would really love to hear it from young mums/single mums. thank you <3
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