quincy1986
Active Member
i think my fil has childish habits.
like just a few days ago, i was making soft boiled eggs for my breakfast.
as i was peeling away the egg shell, he had to come next to me, observe a while
and say "overcooked."
i had simply grabbed a spoon to scrape out the egg
he had to say "use such a big spoon for such a small egg."
then he walked off. but as he walked off, he had to laugh to himself.
he finished his breakfast and so i am taking mine. did i ever ask him for his opinion?
how does he even know how i wanted my egg to be like?
i have no idea why he finds it amusing to irritate me.
above is just an example of how he tries to be irritating.
on many occassions my hb also finds him irritating and will chide him a little.
but that was my hb's own doing. i did not complain to him or anything.
then recently sil told us he is having depression.
i can see that my hb is also irritated by him but cannot chide him anymore.
for my hb it is easier to bear with my fil because he has grown up in this condition.
but for me, every now and then i really do feel like scolding him.
i am the sort if i keep all my anger built up inside i will break down.
i keep asking myself why is there such a person on this earth?
like just a few days ago, i was making soft boiled eggs for my breakfast.
as i was peeling away the egg shell, he had to come next to me, observe a while
and say "overcooked."
i had simply grabbed a spoon to scrape out the egg
he had to say "use such a big spoon for such a small egg."
then he walked off. but as he walked off, he had to laugh to himself.
he finished his breakfast and so i am taking mine. did i ever ask him for his opinion?
how does he even know how i wanted my egg to be like?
i have no idea why he finds it amusing to irritate me.
above is just an example of how he tries to be irritating.
on many occassions my hb also finds him irritating and will chide him a little.
but that was my hb's own doing. i did not complain to him or anything.
then recently sil told us he is having depression.
i can see that my hb is also irritated by him but cannot chide him anymore.
for my hb it is easier to bear with my fil because he has grown up in this condition.
but for me, every now and then i really do feel like scolding him.
i am the sort if i keep all my anger built up inside i will break down.
i keep asking myself why is there such a person on this earth?