Hi, I'm currently pregnant and planning to divorce my husband. I have a 2 yr old son and I am a stay home mum, not working, no income. Husband's job is on and off, he only gives me $$$ occasionally when he has jobs but will soon "borrow" it back from me without returning. Most of the time, we survive on rental money by renting out 2 of our rooms.
To cut a long story short, I have made up my mind to divorce him as he could not provide for the family and yet likes to hang out with his friends almost everyday instead of helping me to take care of the boy. I can't see a bright future with him. I gave him chance after chance (long story), thinking that after he know that we'll be having another baby, he'll change but he proved to me yet again that a leopard never changes its spots. The pregnancy has to go. I do not want history to repeat itself again. As it will be week 12 tmr, I will have to go through another kind of procedure which is similar to a normal delivery in order to terminate the pregnancy and might require a 1 day hospital stay. I'm in the midst of deciding which clinic to go to for the TOP at the moment.
I need someone/kind & loving foster family who can help me take care of my son while I go for the TOP and also to look for a job and a place to stay so that I can engage a lawyer for my divorce. Once I get my finances stable, I will bring my boy back. It can be about in about a few months to 6 months time.
Need help desperately as I do not want to drag my TOP as baby is getting bigger.
By the way, he had already told me to get the papers ready if I want to leave so I guess he can't wait for me to get out too.
To cut a long story short, I have made up my mind to divorce him as he could not provide for the family and yet likes to hang out with his friends almost everyday instead of helping me to take care of the boy. I can't see a bright future with him. I gave him chance after chance (long story), thinking that after he know that we'll be having another baby, he'll change but he proved to me yet again that a leopard never changes its spots. The pregnancy has to go. I do not want history to repeat itself again. As it will be week 12 tmr, I will have to go through another kind of procedure which is similar to a normal delivery in order to terminate the pregnancy and might require a 1 day hospital stay. I'm in the midst of deciding which clinic to go to for the TOP at the moment.
I need someone/kind & loving foster family who can help me take care of my son while I go for the TOP and also to look for a job and a place to stay so that I can engage a lawyer for my divorce. Once I get my finances stable, I will bring my boy back. It can be about in about a few months to 6 months time.
Need help desperately as I do not want to drag my TOP as baby is getting bigger.
By the way, he had already told me to get the papers ready if I want to leave so I guess he can't wait for me to get out too.
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