Dear all,
my husband just employed a maid to take care of our baby about 4 mths back. This maid has been good as she can take care of my baby very well and also make him laugh alot. In the night time, it is also the maid who takes care of our baby as both my husband n me had to work.
4 mths passed by, n my baby is increasingly attached to my maid. He is always looking out for her to play and carry. i also feel that my baby prefers the maid to me and my baby might even think that the maid is his mummy. i feel very sad and have even told my hubby not to employ maid anymore as i'm afraid my baby will not be close to me anymore. however my hubby said its necessary due to our work commitments and also my baby is extremely attention-seeking.
mummies with maids who help to take care of babies, do you all feel sad like me as well? or am i over-reacting? will baby grow up and not be attached to me anymore?
thks for sharing...
my husband just employed a maid to take care of our baby about 4 mths back. This maid has been good as she can take care of my baby very well and also make him laugh alot. In the night time, it is also the maid who takes care of our baby as both my husband n me had to work.
4 mths passed by, n my baby is increasingly attached to my maid. He is always looking out for her to play and carry. i also feel that my baby prefers the maid to me and my baby might even think that the maid is his mummy. i feel very sad and have even told my hubby not to employ maid anymore as i'm afraid my baby will not be close to me anymore. however my hubby said its necessary due to our work commitments and also my baby is extremely attention-seeking.
mummies with maids who help to take care of babies, do you all feel sad like me as well? or am i over-reacting? will baby grow up and not be attached to me anymore?
thks for sharing...