xiaodaisy
Active Member
for mi ah i ask hubby first n see wat he says loh.. if i cant accept e reason den i will use his hp wen he sleep liao n msg back testing tat women loh
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tommyBoi
Alpha Male
haha.. after u passing something to ur ex bf without his knowledge??
He really insecure.. If my wife do that to me everyday, i will tease her "do u want me to forward a copy of my sms to u whenever i rcv, so that u no need to be so tired keep holding onto my hp everyday.. :tlaugh: Luckily she dont behave this way.
tommyBoi
Alpha Male
Hmm.. mayb a long lost female fren of her, i feel is still acceptable, dont think too negative la. But i tot u said u dont be bother to check on him anymore, but u still...
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^Mami_Jazz^
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tommyBoi
Alpha Male
u can ask, but ur hubby will feel irritating if u r doing it too often.
2 person staying together is to trust and love each other, and not to check on each other.. Unless he or she behave strangely, if not y need to check or ask every sms in his hp.
Over suspicious will not bring any good to ur relationship.
jedamum
Member
if my dh offer me this, i will gladly accept his offer.
jedamum
Member
depends on how close you are with your dh, your dh's character and your tone as well as the timing you asked him (you don't go ask him when he is in bad mood or wat la)...my dh is used to me scrolling through his phonebook and quering him who are those nos from...and he is pretty ok.
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^Mami_Jazz^
Guest
Lucky we hv Tommyboi here,
Leanne, take his advise, fm guy's pt of view will not be wrong
Leanne, take his advise, fm guy's pt of view will not be wrong
tommyBoi
Alpha Male
Hmm.. i had a few married frens whose wives did that to their hp everyday, and do u know how they feel? They are not very happy and feel irritated but most of them just dont reveal this feeling to their wives. All these checking issue will cause unneccesary stress to ur hubby, and unintentionally, u r given an impression to ur hubby that u r possessive. They will envy those frens who wives are not so call 'possessive'. Just sharing wat i know from my married guys frens when we r chilling together.
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^Mami_Jazz^
Guest
tis is true, coz they feel lack of privacy
However, for jedadad's case, i'm pretty sure its bcoz he has nothg to hide fm the wife so he wldn't mind jedamum "browsing" at his hp to kill time :tlaugh:
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tommyBoi
Alpha Male
I working in the nite.. :001_302:Yup, tommyBoi always provide us good answers
Wonder he's not working? LOL
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^Mami_Jazz^
Guest
Hmmmm so ur occupation is same as the thread tat u started
ancing_wub:ancing_tongue:hahahah ....
tommyBoi
Alpha Male
hey.. this is just to tease her, not to offer her. If u read carefully, the actual meaning is "u r very free ar, dont tell me u dont have other things better to do than holding on to my hp waiting for sms" :tlaugh::tlaugh:
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^Mami_Jazz^
Guest
hahaha i believe u, fm guy's pt of view again .... :tlaugh:
jedamum
Member
thanks for your point of view. :tlaugh:
my dh knows i am downright possessive right from the start
my dh also checks my hp, cos he joked that i SAHM, stay at home also dunno wat i doing behind his back....:001_302: