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would u give e man a second chance? or do u condemn him totally?do you still trust him completely
would u give e man a second chance? or do u condemn him totally?do you still trust him completely
would you give e man a second chance? or do you condemn him totally?
yup right. but somehow, my love for him is getting so much stronger and stronger, haa!yup.....agreed, its ok to forgive............but hard to forget i guess............ 'cant fix a broken heart' right?
that is something that differs from man to man i guess......some wifes treat their husband like.............nag nag nag, if i were a guy, guess i would be pissed off to! although its not good eat enough reason for them to f... around outside but from a certain point of view, i could understand......to give a chance, the person must be upfront in everything and remorseful. If a person still hide or lies and not remorseful, then how to forgive.
Also have to look at how did he manage to cheat you, and make sure he will not have the opportunity to do it again
haha you reminded me of a guy friend who broke off with his gf, because she's too docile, everyday wait for his call beside the phone, never get mad etc, in the end, he found her boring and broke it off...after a number of very challenging relationships...he went back to her!~ hahathat is something that differs from man to man i guess......some wifes treat their husband like.............nag nag nag, if i were a guy, guess i would be pissed off to! although its not good eat enough reason for them to f... around outside but from a certain point of view, i could understand......
some guys although their DW is very 'docile' treat their man very. well eg 'make breakfast in bed for them everyday' brings him his slippers every evening when he comes home but he finds his life/DW too boring and he still feels the need to f... around outside.
i guess have to treat our dear husband with a balance of both worlds to retain his heart?
ya..............some guys are just so damn contradictive.......... they want this they want that they want the best of both worlds. how to? its just like asking a person to look left and right at the same time......gggggggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrhaha you reminded me of a guy friend who broke off with his gf, because she's too docile, everyday wait for his call beside the phone, never get mad etc, in the end, he found her boring and broke it off...after a number of very challenging relationships...he went back to her!~ haha
During pre-marital counselling, this was covered. Hubs & I actually talked about it (expectations) and my hubs said that he expects his wife to manage the house well and be kinky in bed to keep things fresh.ya..............some guys are just so damn contradictive.......... they want this they want that they want the best of both worlds. how to? its just like asking a person to look left and right at the same time......gggggggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
my ex bf actually told me that i must be 'good and demure' enough to be brought hme to meet his parents, while being hot hot hot with him..............During pre-marital counselling, this was covered. Hubs & I actually talked about it (expectations) and my hubs said that he expects his wife to manage the house well and be kinky in bed to keep things fresh.
Managing the house is not an issue. Keeping things fresh is quite challenging, but fun at the same time because we explore website & books on 'karmasutra' together. Fun to try out the different positions and methods! And make him too tired to stray
It's like they expect you to be the docile and good wife/mother. However, they expect you to change into a wild young thing in bed.
Quite tiring to balance both roles but at least my hubs appreciates it.
Counselling is best to help resolve such issues long term as it helps to explore certain aspects that we may not think of.
Ya i also think got first time sure will have second time.I think "SLEPT WITH OTHER WOMAN" 1 time sure hv 2nd time.
You need to observe vy closely
mandy, take a look at this threadYa i also think got first time sure will have second time.
hmm.. my say would be, can trust, but to a certain extent.mandy, take a look at this thread
http://www.mummysg.com/forums/f13/i-trust-my-partner-73167/
any comment?
Hi, I am vey sorry to hear that. Seeing a counselor would be a good idea. He loves you and its obviously you do the same. try and make it work and start again! Good luck hope you heal up soon. xxx