Hi all mummies,
Happy 2013 to everyone. I just got married last month and my baby will be out by June this year. Before marriage, I am staying at my husband ( boyfriend then) at his place and I will go back to my own house on satursday and he will always go back with me. Things were so far so good 1 year before marriage as I am working and will only be back home by 6pm-8pm sometimes. Although since from the start, I hate his mother alot, but I just live with it. Maybe because I only get to see her 2-3 hours everyday for the past one year. However, after 1year, I became self employed and do my own e-commerce business ( my husband quitted his job to help me with it ). The time we stayed at home tends to be longer than usual. Things started to change, my MIL came home black faced almost everyday and she will nag and talk to herself. Sometimes, she is also very overboard. Always teaching me how to treat my husband, cannot this cannot that. She dotes on my husband alot anyway. Whenever during weekend, when we slept till 11am in the morning, she will starts to knock on the door so hard and wake us up. I think she's crazy, she wake up doesnt mean people have to wake up as well. There're still many things in the list which I did not mentioned.
Well, recently she had reached my limits that I couldnt tolerate anymore. I suggested to my husband that we should move in to my parents' home for the time being till our new flat is up by 2014. However, my husband ego is too high. He thought I asked him to leave his parents and move back with me. He doesnt want people to think that he actually married in to my family. So he obviously rejected my suggestion. I just had a conflict with my MIL last sat and I havent been back to the house since then. She had also complained to my husband that whenever I see her, I didn't call her. She's the one who always pull a long face and whenever I call her ( before marriage ) she will ignored me. Now that I am married and I had to call her "ma" I didnt even feel like calling her. So ever since after marriage, I had stopped calling her.
I am thinking of staying away from her as much as I can. Since she will be at work during weekday from 8am to about 3pm. After 3pm, I will just go back to my own house until about 10pm then I go back to that house. ( she usually sleeps at that time ). For weekend, friday to sun , I will just stay at my own house. This is what I suggested to my husband and he had no problem with it.
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Happy 2013 to everyone. I just got married last month and my baby will be out by June this year. Before marriage, I am staying at my husband ( boyfriend then) at his place and I will go back to my own house on satursday and he will always go back with me. Things were so far so good 1 year before marriage as I am working and will only be back home by 6pm-8pm sometimes. Although since from the start, I hate his mother alot, but I just live with it. Maybe because I only get to see her 2-3 hours everyday for the past one year. However, after 1year, I became self employed and do my own e-commerce business ( my husband quitted his job to help me with it ). The time we stayed at home tends to be longer than usual. Things started to change, my MIL came home black faced almost everyday and she will nag and talk to herself. Sometimes, she is also very overboard. Always teaching me how to treat my husband, cannot this cannot that. She dotes on my husband alot anyway. Whenever during weekend, when we slept till 11am in the morning, she will starts to knock on the door so hard and wake us up. I think she's crazy, she wake up doesnt mean people have to wake up as well. There're still many things in the list which I did not mentioned.
Well, recently she had reached my limits that I couldnt tolerate anymore. I suggested to my husband that we should move in to my parents' home for the time being till our new flat is up by 2014. However, my husband ego is too high. He thought I asked him to leave his parents and move back with me. He doesnt want people to think that he actually married in to my family. So he obviously rejected my suggestion. I just had a conflict with my MIL last sat and I havent been back to the house since then. She had also complained to my husband that whenever I see her, I didn't call her. She's the one who always pull a long face and whenever I call her ( before marriage ) she will ignored me. Now that I am married and I had to call her "ma" I didnt even feel like calling her. So ever since after marriage, I had stopped calling her.
I am thinking of staying away from her as much as I can. Since she will be at work during weekday from 8am to about 3pm. After 3pm, I will just go back to my own house until about 10pm then I go back to that house. ( she usually sleeps at that time ). For weekend, friday to sun , I will just stay at my own house. This is what I suggested to my husband and he had no problem with it.
Seek more advices from all other mummies