since u asked... i must admit i'm very blessed to have nice inlaws. i believe my parents will make very nice inlaws too, to my bro's gf as they are planning for marriage next year but their lovenest will not be ready in the next 3 years.i'm just wondering if any of the ladies here have blessed life to have nice inlaws? able to share so i can see bright lights?
mine sucks to max shit and frankly i HATE my inlaws to max. shld my husband be less nice to me, i will let go and get the whole family out of my life!
i am not that fortunate. my hubby has bought a new flat and his parents sold theirs to live with him, so now we are all living together. my filial hubby kinda promised to stay with them, so it seems like i do not have a choice. of course i would really really really love to have my own lovenest but after all these years i also 'ren ming' already.. thankfully my inlaws are easy going and so am i. live together for 4 years already, have not't had conflicts. but i worry will have when baby comes (in 2 mths!) cos i kinda disagree w the way my inlaws bring up his nephews... now i'm just counting my blessings, and mother in law does all the housework. i never had to wash anything besides my own undergarments. they really treat me like own daughter.
next thing to worry is in future no room for baby, esp if we have 2 kids which is what he wants? the spare room is like my storeroom cum study. hubby telling me to throw things away and clear it up but i refuse. it's just so unfair that my friends w their own lovenests have their own bookshelves all along the wall to keep many things, i only have two tiniest ikea shelves (waist height only) and i have to throw away my books? somemore his parents has so many things in the storeroom n cabinets etc. when i moved in i feel like a tenant, no space for my things at all, now many still in plastic storage boxes in the spare room... so i told him we have to save to upgrade (have 4-bedroom unit?) cos his parents take one room, we take one room, and the current spare room how to fit 2 beds n 3 study tables (i need one!) if got 2 kids in future.