choiceessentials
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Understand the education environment is so competitive... however, should we be overly protective... or should we still allow some breathing space for them to manage their schoolwork themselves and develop the independence for higher level education?
Especially for working mums. Being realistic that one doesn't have much time... not to stress oneself unnecessarily and also, to allow the kid to be independent in their study at an early age.... I strongly believe in this saying... "teach them how to fish rather than fishing along with them".
For example, at Lower Primary, learning spelling.... learning Ting Xie.. the kid should be able to learn.. recall the words and test oneself and not wait for mummy to return from work to test them to access if they know their spellng or Ting Xie.
If they learn on their own.. when they get good marks.. they see they earn it themselves. Credit goes to them. Rather than develop this dependability on their mummy.
Hence as Mummies, believe it's more worthwhile to impart the study technique, time management skill .. playing more a supervisory role to track their record rather than as a co-worker.
Would you agree?
Especially for working mums. Being realistic that one doesn't have much time... not to stress oneself unnecessarily and also, to allow the kid to be independent in their study at an early age.... I strongly believe in this saying... "teach them how to fish rather than fishing along with them".
For example, at Lower Primary, learning spelling.... learning Ting Xie.. the kid should be able to learn.. recall the words and test oneself and not wait for mummy to return from work to test them to access if they know their spellng or Ting Xie.
If they learn on their own.. when they get good marks.. they see they earn it themselves. Credit goes to them. Rather than develop this dependability on their mummy.
Hence as Mummies, believe it's more worthwhile to impart the study technique, time management skill .. playing more a supervisory role to track their record rather than as a co-worker.
Would you agree?