Sounds like the baby's daddy is totally not interested?karoru said:it is tough... really tough... i m only in 5 weeks plus and i am beginning to feel the stressed and negative feeling... hope i will not get depressed... how did you mummies go through the stage? do you have the urge to contact baby's daddy when you are emo? i do and i really hate feeling that way... once i m not emo, i m okay, back to rational state... sigh...
I understand your plight better now ... but 228 days is still quite some way to go, so I still think you should seek "alternative support" from within your own family. Friends will be friends, but what I'm talking about is someone you will not hesitate to call for when you suddenly feel unwell, someone who would not hesitate to be by your side in the delivery suite.karoru said:yes, i don like the fact that baby's daddy appears as and when he likes... i still manage to handle the pregnancy myself till he reappears again... each time he appears, my emotions will be like roller coaster... i know it is gonna affect my baby... sigh!!
i don want to reconcile with baby's daddy and had told him that we go our separate ways, do not contact me anymore... but he still appears as and when he likes... when i really need him and in urgent state, he is nowhere to be found... sigh!! argh!! that is one of the reason why i choose not to be continue with him.. coz i don want my baby to grow up feeling "confused" about her daddy...
Come in here more often ... assuming that time allows you to do that, of course.schnookiecake83 said:life still goes on my dear...
my ex-bf has left me wif a big tummy n i'm into my 12th week already..
i go for check-ups myself n i nvr demand a ting from him..
he says he care but i dun believe it after hw he treated me n still treats me..
i have a baby in me who needs care n love wen it comes out..
i am willing to go thru tis alone cos i know i can do it...
n i hope u can too..
stay positive n even if u have to cry at nite, jus let it out...
i have been crying loads n have jus started to smile again..
God will lead u to the right path..
trust in Him n trust urself too..
we are here for u as well..
do keep smiling.. *hugs*
yes, i do... thanks GOD that my family esp my bro and sister-in-law is very receptive to my pregnancy.... sometimes, i just feel that a husband's love and concern is just diff no matter how the pp around you shower you with love and concern... i seldom ponder on that, only during time when i am emotional or disturbed by my physcial changes (such as morning sickness, ulcers, painful teeth and etc)...
yes, i will be strong for the sake of my baby...
thanks, dear