my own mother can help to take care of my baby, just dat my house is also a 3-room flat, there isnt enough room for the baby also. my hubby house is also a 3-room flat, not 3 bedrooms... only 2 bedrooms...Can your own mother take care of your baby?
Staying with in laws is like that.. no choice.. Hopefully you can move to a bigger flat soon.. as 3 bedrooms stay so many ppl really too cramp! Then still have your maid coming next month!
Think now u can only "ren".. I become very good at it already.. hee..
my maid has come in few days ago. finally i can relax a bit. she help to take care of my baby in the day, and i take care of the baby in the night...
these 2 days, mil's mother came over. when she come over in the morning @ 8am, i cant sleep at all. after she was discharge from the hospital, she wont stop talking. she keep asking ppl over to listen to her, and she keep repeating stuff. den suddenly she will talk in a language which u dont understand, when u nv reply her, she will say that u are very arrogant, selfish, etc. she start talking nonsense and anyhow scold ppl. she even ask me to let my bil's son who is 1yr+ to carry my 6 weeks old daughter. when i say cannot, baby still young, she scolded me also. she cant control her bowels oso, and so my maid have to help her to toilet & etc.
when she is in the hospital, the patient next to her also complain her. at the polyclinic, doctor also ask her to stop talking. but she will only stop for a few second. i told my husband, if mil's mother come over n stay, i will bring my daughter go back to my own house. sometimes 忍无可忍, 无需再忍。。。