infinity88
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Sigh! i feel so sad, upset and at times even angry bt my mil.
i am living with my parents during weekdays with my baby, as the place i work is very near to my mum's place and my girl is being looked after by my mum. I only go bk to my mil place once a week to stay over or for a visit. But the things she did makes me feel more and more dreaded of going bk.
Every time i go back to mil place, i will address her when i step into the house but she will not acknowledge or answer me and jus treat me as total transparent, jus carry my girl from me and kept talking to her. Initially, i thought maybe she cannot hear me, so i called her louder... but still no response. Confide in my mum, she does not really think its the case. However, that day mil came to my mum's place to see my girl, i went to the door when she entered, called her but she still no answer me. my mum thought maybe she cannot hear, my mum then talked to her from a further distance but she responded to her.. i jus feel that i respected you but you treat me like ultra transparent...
Then that day i was very angry with my hubby who had broke a very important promise. i shouted at him over the phone angrily. Knowing that he is at fault, he kept quiet and just let me vent my anger. My mil snatched over the phone and shouted at me and even scolding vulgarities... i was so angry but i kept my cool and did not answer her. My hubby then took over the phone to talk to me, and my mil was at the background shouting telling my hubby not to be with me... should leave me alone... dun need me... Makes me so upset.
My hubby used to come and stay over every 2 days to spend time with my girl and me. But recently i found out that his mum does not like him to come over and even tried ways to make sure he cannot come over.. now my girl only sees daddy once a week....
I really cannot tahan her liao..
i am living with my parents during weekdays with my baby, as the place i work is very near to my mum's place and my girl is being looked after by my mum. I only go bk to my mil place once a week to stay over or for a visit. But the things she did makes me feel more and more dreaded of going bk.
Every time i go back to mil place, i will address her when i step into the house but she will not acknowledge or answer me and jus treat me as total transparent, jus carry my girl from me and kept talking to her. Initially, i thought maybe she cannot hear me, so i called her louder... but still no response. Confide in my mum, she does not really think its the case. However, that day mil came to my mum's place to see my girl, i went to the door when she entered, called her but she still no answer me. my mum thought maybe she cannot hear, my mum then talked to her from a further distance but she responded to her.. i jus feel that i respected you but you treat me like ultra transparent...
Then that day i was very angry with my hubby who had broke a very important promise. i shouted at him over the phone angrily. Knowing that he is at fault, he kept quiet and just let me vent my anger. My mil snatched over the phone and shouted at me and even scolding vulgarities... i was so angry but i kept my cool and did not answer her. My hubby then took over the phone to talk to me, and my mil was at the background shouting telling my hubby not to be with me... should leave me alone... dun need me... Makes me so upset.
My hubby used to come and stay over every 2 days to spend time with my girl and me. But recently i found out that his mum does not like him to come over and even tried ways to make sure he cannot come over.. now my girl only sees daddy once a week....
I really cannot tahan her liao..