Recently I got a PI and got evidence of my husband having affairs with a women. At first, i didn't use the evidence to confront him. I told him my friend saw him with a woman, he keep on denying and accuse my friend of making up story and claims he is working OT, so as to give us a comfotable life, and i keep on suspcious of him. He even swear to god, he didn't have affair.
I have no choice and used the PI's evidence to confront him. He was quiet and ask me what i want. We went into cold war a few days. Then one day, he asked me ut for dinner and ask for forgiveness. He claim that he also don't know why he had gone into the affair. And promises never to see her again. I forgived him.
His behaviour was ok for a few days, but after a week, it returns like before. He bring his HP whereever he goes and he password locked his hp. He also started to come back late.
I talked to him, he claim he is not having affair again and i am using his past against him. But deepin my heart, i feel he had changed. Should i divorce him or save my marriage. Pls give me some advice, as i am really confused.
I have no choice and used the PI's evidence to confront him. He was quiet and ask me what i want. We went into cold war a few days. Then one day, he asked me ut for dinner and ask for forgiveness. He claim that he also don't know why he had gone into the affair. And promises never to see her again. I forgived him.
His behaviour was ok for a few days, but after a week, it returns like before. He bring his HP whereever he goes and he password locked his hp. He also started to come back late.
I talked to him, he claim he is not having affair again and i am using his past against him. But deepin my heart, i feel he had changed. Should i divorce him or save my marriage. Pls give me some advice, as i am really confused.
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