Maqisa
Member
hi
Just want to know if there's anyone out there who's like 35 and above and trying for a baby for the first time? u see, i got married late and sigh, i'm like 37 now and i am NOT pregnant till date.. it's been very stressful and very very upsetting, esp when my sis-in-law had like 2 already (my hubby only had 1 elder brother but this sis-in-law,pretty yucky person.., she's much younger than me.. so i guess she's more fertile)
i felt so so so stressed up coz tons of articles stated that it gets more and more tough for women to get preggy aft the 35 mark and i'm really WAY PASS 35!!!! honestly, i dun feel old and thk god, i dun look 37 but at times, i felt old and lousy and looking at my sis-in-law and others with kids, i felt so URGH!!!!!
its gets to the point when i just want to give up.. i mean, its so pointless trying only to face the grand disappointment month after month...
My hubby was ok about us not having a child yet, maybe because he doesnt want to add on anymore stress, still i felt so incompetent and lousy as a wife!!!
We are both healthy and been to the doc's, everything's ok... so i just dun get it..
Just want to know if there's anyone out there who's like 35 and above and trying for a baby for the first time? u see, i got married late and sigh, i'm like 37 now and i am NOT pregnant till date.. it's been very stressful and very very upsetting, esp when my sis-in-law had like 2 already (my hubby only had 1 elder brother but this sis-in-law,pretty yucky person.., she's much younger than me.. so i guess she's more fertile)
i felt so so so stressed up coz tons of articles stated that it gets more and more tough for women to get preggy aft the 35 mark and i'm really WAY PASS 35!!!! honestly, i dun feel old and thk god, i dun look 37 but at times, i felt old and lousy and looking at my sis-in-law and others with kids, i felt so URGH!!!!!
its gets to the point when i just want to give up.. i mean, its so pointless trying only to face the grand disappointment month after month...
My hubby was ok about us not having a child yet, maybe because he doesnt want to add on anymore stress, still i felt so incompetent and lousy as a wife!!!
We are both healthy and been to the doc's, everything's ok... so i just dun get it..