dun he knows tt there's always unforseen circumstances?? LOL... i did told my hubby before, if we hav our own children, i'll definitely stay at hm and take care of them on my own.. at least e 1st 2 yrs as i dun wish to miss thier 1st flip, 1st crawl, 1st laughter, 1st time standing up etc etc... hehe...
Hey regina, so did your hubby approve of this arrangement? Or did he frown upon it? Actually I also think this way too because once that very FIRST moment comes & goes, it will never come back. You can press the rewind button but nothing will go back in time.
oh dear, mebbe tts the way he is to make it clear to u..
oh yes, my hubby also wants me to stay wit our future bb for the 1st 3yrs bcz he say tt 1st 3 yrs are the crucial yr which bb needs our full attn n den aft 3 yrs i cn go off for wrk n put him in a childcare:001_302:
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dun gif urself so much stress... the more u kan chiong, the more u cant get it leh... just tell urself "baby dut will come soon" but dun keep ask urself "why i haven preg?" Stressfree is a must is one is trying for a baby... in e meantime,get urself prepared.. look for more info on pregnancy, those sypmtons u'll face during pregnancy... this will help u to deal with ur future pregnancy smoothly.. hehe :tlaugh:oh dear, mebbe tts the way he is to make it clear to u..
oh yes, my hubby also wants me to stay wit our future bb for the 1st 3yrs bcz he say tt 1st 3 yrs are the crucial yr which bb needs our full attn n den aft 3 yrs i cn go off for wrk n put him in a childcare:001_302:
But my oh my when will the joyous moment for us will come?? Oh lord i jz cnt wait any longer cz my relationship wit DH r gettin more n more quiet n feelin lonely:001_07::001_07::001_07:
u type wrongly or i read wrongly?? hw come ur DH got mood swing??
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Wow, your company is really good huh? Does she have any special skills that makes the company values her, instead of treating her as a liability???
What is POV?I was jobless when i got married. and i TTC immediately cos me n hb wanted a baby straightaway (hb not younge le).
finances wise it was amazing. we din even tink about it. we jus prayed hard
at tt time hb was e onli one bringing in money, we were renting a unit cos flat not ready. we tot ttc a few months then i can rest also. but who noes, strike on first try.
end up i started working when i was 8wks preggie (company called me back even though they noe i'm preggie). and hv been coping well with childcare arrangements n work.
my hb was very prepared for me to stay at home but i noe his income isnt alot. though can survive, but my hb gotta work very hard and hardly hv time for me.
I'm starting to TTC for #2 now. And am starting PT work in Jul this yr. hopefully by then will be preggie liao so PT will allow me to rest more n spend more time with my son
for those who are making this impt decision, always ask urself:
- can u cope without luxuries?
- does ur hb understand ur POV?
- are u willing to take up the hard work (being SAHM is 24/7, no leave, no mc, no weekends, no off duty!)
