Hi fellow mummies!
I am 21 this year and will be expecting my baby to be out next year Feb. I know its kind of early to post these thing but I need to check and plan things out. Once my tummy gets bigger, I am not allowed to stay at own home anymore. My mother and my uncle wouldnt like that. That means I would have to stay with my boyfriend's mum when my tummy is bigger. However, he does not have his own room, not even his room. His family is complicated and his life complicated.
After I give birth, I do not want to stay with his parents as his mother is really grumpy, noisy and its really irritating naggy. Not those normal ones, but correct also nag, wrong also nag. Shout here and is also someone who just act nicely infront of someone and different behind the bag. She is also dirty and unhygienic. Of course, if I tell her, she will nag and not happy. One more thing, she is really too much of superstitious.
I am unable to get marry with my boyfriend so there would be a lot of difficulties along the way but never ever did we think of abortion.
My question:
a. After giving birth, can I rent a house or a room from hdb? Any ways at all? :/
b. Can I include my boyfriend name at my baby's birth cert?
thanks!
I am 21 this year and will be expecting my baby to be out next year Feb. I know its kind of early to post these thing but I need to check and plan things out. Once my tummy gets bigger, I am not allowed to stay at own home anymore. My mother and my uncle wouldnt like that. That means I would have to stay with my boyfriend's mum when my tummy is bigger. However, he does not have his own room, not even his room. His family is complicated and his life complicated.
After I give birth, I do not want to stay with his parents as his mother is really grumpy, noisy and its really irritating naggy. Not those normal ones, but correct also nag, wrong also nag. Shout here and is also someone who just act nicely infront of someone and different behind the bag. She is also dirty and unhygienic. Of course, if I tell her, she will nag and not happy. One more thing, she is really too much of superstitious.
I am unable to get marry with my boyfriend so there would be a lot of difficulties along the way but never ever did we think of abortion.
My question:
a. After giving birth, can I rent a house or a room from hdb? Any ways at all? :/
b. Can I include my boyfriend name at my baby's birth cert?
thanks!