I have enought!!! Can't stand a weak hubby anymore!!!
Last Monday,he sms me to said that coming Sun (today) he will follow his mum (MIL staying with us) for the annual tomb sweeping (really at the cementry, hot and no shelter, not those in the temple). I replied does he plan to bring our DD along, he said : nope, and trying to find ways not to do so.
And yet today, he just kuai kuai follow suit and hurry DD to shower before leaving. I told him, 2 years ago,we let MIL bring my DD and she end up high fever when she come back. We had such a hard time for those few days with her high fever and ask if he want history to repeat. He did not answer.
How many mumies out there actually brought your little one to tomb sweep ?
This is not the first time, hubby is weak.For most of the time, if he can 'sweep things under the carpet' he would and kept asking me to 'endure, for his sake'. But never, the other way round. I do know that he is sandwich in between, but, there must be a limit to this.
Things happen years back (long story). For the last 5 year,MIL being living with us under the same roof and till today, we never talk at all (not a word). We just treat each other transparent. Occassional, she will use her vulgurality on me. He still wants me to go on living like that for the next 5 years and more. I can't do it. Can you, if you are in my shoes ?
I keep telling myself to endure for 2 more months till EDD,after which confinement at my mum place. And then, I will file for separation on grounds that he don't protect is wife nor child and end this.
Last Monday,he sms me to said that coming Sun (today) he will follow his mum (MIL staying with us) for the annual tomb sweeping (really at the cementry, hot and no shelter, not those in the temple). I replied does he plan to bring our DD along, he said : nope, and trying to find ways not to do so.
And yet today, he just kuai kuai follow suit and hurry DD to shower before leaving. I told him, 2 years ago,we let MIL bring my DD and she end up high fever when she come back. We had such a hard time for those few days with her high fever and ask if he want history to repeat. He did not answer.
How many mumies out there actually brought your little one to tomb sweep ?
This is not the first time, hubby is weak.For most of the time, if he can 'sweep things under the carpet' he would and kept asking me to 'endure, for his sake'. But never, the other way round. I do know that he is sandwich in between, but, there must be a limit to this.
Things happen years back (long story). For the last 5 year,MIL being living with us under the same roof and till today, we never talk at all (not a word). We just treat each other transparent. Occassional, she will use her vulgurality on me. He still wants me to go on living like that for the next 5 years and more. I can't do it. Can you, if you are in my shoes ?
I keep telling myself to endure for 2 more months till EDD,after which confinement at my mum place. And then, I will file for separation on grounds that he don't protect is wife nor child and end this.