jojoki
Well-Known Member
my mil and i are also not on talking terms. when i was pregnant she totally never did anything nor asked how am i. When i gave birth she did not want to visit in hospital bcos said the place is "dirty". Then whn i returned home.. she came to see my bb. And thn bragged about how she boiled abalone n cordyceps soup for the dil (my hubby's ex-wife) when she was pregnant and thats why her grand daughter (hubby's 1st dd with ex wife) is sooo beautiful to my confinement lady. When my CL asked "Oh! So did u boil for you this DIL (me)?" and she said "her mother bought cordyceps and i bought abalone for her" And I was like bullshit!! the small 1 pc of abalone was bought by her put I PAID for it!!!! she din even paid for it and she got the nerves to say she bought it.
THen she went on to tell my CL to shaved my bb's hair n eyebrows la... thn chant something while doing so bla bla bla about her rituals! Whn i overheard all these... I told hubby immediately "I'm NOT going to do watever ur mum is saying, let u know first. She can do it with her own kids but not MINE!"
I can totally emphatize with with Cheyenne.. MIL can be soooo difficult, interfering n a real pain in the butt, esp of ur hubby is mummy's boy. I had quarelled with hubby many times thanks to his mother!! IMHO Cheyenne, if u still love ur hubby even a tiny bit... dun give up on the marriage. REally, children needs their father. U must really try to work it out.. using different approach. Swallow ur pride if u need to. It s hard to be a single mother... n if u still love him, divorcing is PAINFUL.
I sincerely wish u the best and really hope things will work out good for u. Meanwhile, be happy and have a wonderful pregnancy.
THen she went on to tell my CL to shaved my bb's hair n eyebrows la... thn chant something while doing so bla bla bla about her rituals! Whn i overheard all these... I told hubby immediately "I'm NOT going to do watever ur mum is saying, let u know first. She can do it with her own kids but not MINE!"
I can totally emphatize with with Cheyenne.. MIL can be soooo difficult, interfering n a real pain in the butt, esp of ur hubby is mummy's boy. I had quarelled with hubby many times thanks to his mother!! IMHO Cheyenne, if u still love ur hubby even a tiny bit... dun give up on the marriage. REally, children needs their father. U must really try to work it out.. using different approach. Swallow ur pride if u need to. It s hard to be a single mother... n if u still love him, divorcing is PAINFUL.
I sincerely wish u the best and really hope things will work out good for u. Meanwhile, be happy and have a wonderful pregnancy.