My husband and I have not known each other for 3 mths and I got pregnant. Now, my son is 5mths and he is in love with someone whom i also known. This third party is also a married woman who has a 1 yr plus son too...they are actually behind my back dating each other, meeting and calling each other dear...What really upset me was when found out his conversation in msn wif that lady...that my husband say to her that she is the 2nd person whom he had some much feeling in...and he love her more than I do...and cant stop thinking they are doing things together such as travelling, holding hand till the end...it was so heartbreaking for me...i can't imagine that his heart change so fast...probably ppl do change...even when i hint him that i knw he is dating someone, his msn conversation was still those mushy words to the gal, till i confront him and ask do u think there's any future with u and the gal who is also married? And y r u breaking up family not only ours but theirs? He couldnt ans me even i ask him whether will u come back to us or continue that relationship...he couldnt give me an ans...till the nxt day when i say i may b confronting the gal, he say dun have and he;ll settle and a mgs was send to me after 2 hrs that he'll break ties wif her...but before he mgs,i was already on my way to confront her and i did talk to her...although the gal say she will stop, i dun knw whether to believe anot...and i knw they still talk on msn and my husband pour out to her that he wanted me not to hurt her so he sent me the mgs that he will cut the tie wif her, and he worry abt seeing her losing the smile on her face and making her upset...he told her that he dun love me but as a responsiblilty to take care of me and my son and he also think thot of asking the 2nd chance back wif me...coz he feel that love and can click is very impt in relationship...those elements was wat we did once had..till my son is born and he is bz wif work and he usually spend time on internet even at home and dun wan to talk wif me although i try...knwing his thot frm msn make me feel so heartbroken, and also feel y am i that stupid to love him and get hurt...i hold on was becoz of my son as i really wan him to grow up in a family that have mum and dad..i dun knw wat shld i do..to juz file divorce wif him or juz give him time and think what he shld do? juz feel that i'm stuck in between...sometimes treat me like stranger,yet showing concern, still giving peck and sometime even touch me...juz feel so irrritated by wat he do...he such a grown man and still being indecisive...and still looking for someone based on feeling..this is such a secondary sch...haiz...he has no idea wat he wan...Previously before i knw him, he was also having affair wif a married woman and also ask her to go for abortion...this is the 2nd time le,shld i juz give him time and salavge the marriage for the sake of my son or juz let him go and take care of my son all by myself? :embarrassed: