Dear Mummies,ref. to above subject I have 2 places to do my confinement.
1) my in laws place - current place where I'm staying but w squatting toilet bowl and only solution is to use a portable toilet chair.tts one of the major cons and I'll be sleeping in room w hubby, 5 year old child and our newborn baby then. I'm worried me or newborn might disturb hubby n jie jie sleeping and oso I may not be getting sufficient rest due to caring for elder daughter after school and during weekend. Pros is that there's air con,clothes.don't have to wash myself and MIL may be able to help just a lil bit.
2) my mum's place. Pros-my mum willing to help me w 2 weeks of unpaid leave but she'll have to help clear the room n house for my confinement stay and do the washing of clothes for me n bb. I can do whatever I want at my mum's place but I'd be separated w my hubby n elder daughter for 2-3 months as I intend to only go back to in laws place till I'm comfortable to use the squatting toilet bowl. Cons is I'm afraid me or newborn will disturb my parents and sister's sleep as they have to work.
Dear mummies I'm due in early October and I need advises urgently. Please help me~
1) my in laws place - current place where I'm staying but w squatting toilet bowl and only solution is to use a portable toilet chair.tts one of the major cons and I'll be sleeping in room w hubby, 5 year old child and our newborn baby then. I'm worried me or newborn might disturb hubby n jie jie sleeping and oso I may not be getting sufficient rest due to caring for elder daughter after school and during weekend. Pros is that there's air con,clothes.don't have to wash myself and MIL may be able to help just a lil bit.
2) my mum's place. Pros-my mum willing to help me w 2 weeks of unpaid leave but she'll have to help clear the room n house for my confinement stay and do the washing of clothes for me n bb. I can do whatever I want at my mum's place but I'd be separated w my hubby n elder daughter for 2-3 months as I intend to only go back to in laws place till I'm comfortable to use the squatting toilet bowl. Cons is I'm afraid me or newborn will disturb my parents and sister's sleep as they have to work.
Dear mummies I'm due in early October and I need advises urgently. Please help me~