Who to compromise?

[kohym]

i feel the most impt aspect is the spirit behind the customs. i rather have shape than substance.

when we got married, i wanted the traditional aspects but i wouldn't allow both sides to lose zzz over it. it should be fun and meaningful and when we look back, we can laugh at our actions and admire the traditions behind it.

 

[helenkong]

i feel the most impt aspect is the spirit behind the customs. i rather have shape than substance.

when we got married, i wanted the traditional aspects but i wouldn't allow both sides to lose zzz over it. it should be fun and meaningful and when we look back, we can laugh at our actions and admire the traditions behind it.

i guess u got the point there.
i think back, i still laught at the moment although he n i already divorced