Actually i want to giv bengawan solo voucher, but MIL said not sincere so change lor... Let them br cake hm, if got cake left i sure tell them to finish it. As cake cant keep but voucher can keep mah...actualli my relatives prefer giving bengawan solo gift vouchers cos can go use it to purchse other things of same value. i know my mum like to keep them till near CNY then take all out to use!
y not sincere?? since u've alrdy book buffet, the cake is optional.. if u give the cake voucher ppl will be v happy.. cos lik wat stonston said, they can choose the cake they want... if got ppl dun wanna take the cake hm or what, ask ur MIL to finish the cake.. maybe give her 2 slices before her meal... ask her finish the cake before having the meal (lik wat she did to ur BB) :001_302::001_302::001_302:Actually i want to give bengawan solo voucher, but mother in law said not sincere so change ... Let them br cake hm, if got cake left i sure tell them to finish it. As cake cant keep but voucher can keep mah...
Old ppl mentality. Moreover, more "face" if gonna bring the cakes ard mah..why not sincere?? since you've alrdy book buffet, the cake is optional.. if you give the cake voucher ppl will be very happy.. cos lik what stonston said, they can choose the cake they want... if got ppl dont wanna take the cake hm or what, ask your mother in law to finish the cake.. maybe give her 2 slices before her meal... ask her finish the cake before having the meal (lik what she did to your baby) :001_302::001_302::001_302:
ask the guest stick the cake voucher on their forehead also can mah :001_302:Old ppl mentality. Moreover, more "face" if gonna bring the cakes around mah..
Wahahahah.. 1st Grandchild mah.. Rite? :tlaugh:I like the lao niang thingy..ask the guest stick the cake voucher on their forehead also can mah :001_302:
want face also must see practical anot ... sometimes i feel that those "elderly" should also respect the younger generations..
i keep tell my hubby that my baby full month i dont wanna celebrate cos very troublesome but father in law insist.. So i tell him, lao niang will be the one choosing the catering company and the food!!! Just tell me hw many ppl can alrdy, if not dont celebrate! ancing_tongue:
HAHA! ya 1st.. but v troublesome den imagine BB so kelian will kanna pass ard the whole day... xim tia =(Wahahahah.. 1st Grandchild mah.. Rite? :tlaugh:I like the lao niang thingy..
juz tel them to wash their hands when u spot someone trying to carry yr BB. this is what i plan to do. i will watch my BB like a hawk!HAHA! ya 1st.. but very troublesome then imagine baby so kelian will kanna pass around the whole day... xim tia =(
sincerity is from the heart, not from actions.Actually i want to give bengawan solo voucher, but mother in law said not sincere so change ... Let them br cake hm, if got cake left i sure tell them to finish it. As cake cant keep but voucher can keep mah...
i think i'll be following my BB lik body guard.. imagine, during tt time i'm either on confinement or just finish... so tiring.. and some ppl will v buay zhi dong, carry ur BB and WALK ard den we the mothers sure wry mah, will FOLLOW ard.. HAHA... i only hope they wont comment on hw i take care of my BB and how I feed him etc...just tel them to wash their hands when you spot someone trying to carry your baby. this is what i plan to do. i will watch my baby like a hawk!
ask ur SIL to give birth to one la... actu come to think of it, ur SIL dote ur BB right? if not she'll not FOLLOW her liao haha...like my baby full month that time also like that. my sister In law always carry my baby here and there also askin for my baby. then my mum know i dont like, (i always complain to my mum bout em) so my mum say (ai yo, let me carry, baby's great grandmother want to c) my mum always find excuses to carry frm her, even my baby's lst one your old party also like that, then you can c two groups of ppl kept askin for my baby... but my sister In law not pai say one, thick skinned....
u mean they pay they decide right?Think of all these as outsourcing when planning events with inherited relatives.
I had my baby shower at husband's grandfather's house. They wanted to do everything, including buy cakes etc. So i didn't get invovled in the planning or anything. On that day, me, baby and husband went to the house. No clean up, no payment nothing. haha
Same for baby's first birthday. I did 2 parties. One at my mum's place, one at my mother in law home (unfortunately i live with mother in law). The one at my mum's place settled by my mum. The one at the house all paid and organised by mother in law I didn't do a single thing nor could I be bothered. Didn't even do any cleaning up =D Just be there with baby that's all.
I dun like PIL to sponsor coz they will call the shot & decide everything by them. Unless they fork out $ & i decide EVERYTHING den is OKyou mean they pay they decide right?
my hubby got mention to me before that father in law might want to sponsor baby's buffet... but I straight away say NO! cos i know once they "sponsor" means they decide everything from the catering to the foods.... unless he dont mind paying and let us join in the discussion .. afterall it's my baby's full month.. :tlaugh:
yaloyalo... if we call the shot then i dun mind PIL pay.. =DI dont like PIL to sponsor coz they will call the shot & decide everything by them. Unless they fork out $ & i decide EVERYTHING then is OK
cos they feel tt the BB share the same surname with them thus everything also wanna interfere... internal grandchild mah... LOL...just dont know why PIL want to chap ji kia so many thing which involve baby... haiz... lucky my own dad & mum is qing cai if not my head goin to burst... anyways, my dad always let us the daughter decide for him