will i get pregnant?

[babylovess]

hi all,

im really very confused now, i need advise.
my last menses are from 20 june to 27 june.
my ex and i have unprotected sex on 06 july.
im not sure if he did shoot in anot. but i know that he didnt clean up the first time and carry on with the second time immediately.
my menses should be on 18 july but its already late for 10days.
im so worried that i will be pregnant.
as he broke off with me last week.
im now currently overseas working.
i dont know what should i do.
can pregnancy kit in china trustable? i dont dare go buy, afraid to let my colleague know about it.
i have Abdominal Pain, Bloating, and feel Nausea at night.
does abdominal pain means that a sense of pulling feel?

will i be pregnant even he does not shoot in?

kind of very emotional right now, cos of the break off.
:bbconfused:

 

[whitecat]

hi all,

im really very confused now, i need advise.
my last menses are from 20 june to 27 june.
my ex and i have unprotected sex on 06 july.
im not sure if he did shoot in anot. but i know that he didnt clean up the first time and carry on with the second time immediately.
my menses should be on 18 july but its already late for 10days.
im so worried that i will be pregnant.
as he broke off with me last week.
im now currently overseas working.
i dont know what should i do.
can pregnancy kit in china trustable? i dont dare go buy, afraid to let my colleague know about it.
i have Abdominal Pain, Bloating, and feel Nausea at night.
does abdominal pain means that a sense of pulling feel?

will i be pregnant even he does not shoot in?

kind of very emotional right now, cos of the break off.
:bbconfused:

Chances are always higher for unprotected sex. To calm all doubts, strongly advise u to get tested... ie DIY kits asap. Buy d trusted brands. Prolong delays will only put yrself into more jiggy situation.

Honestly, based fm abv explanation, it's not at yr advantage. Pray hard I'm wrong though!!!
PM if u need advise.

 

[apollo]

hi all,

im really very confused now, i need advise.
my last menses are from 20 june to 27 june.
my ex and i have unprotected sex on 06 july.
im not sure if he did shoot in anot. but i know that he didnt clean up the first time and carry on with the second time immediately.
my menses should be on 18 july but its already late for 10days.
im so worried that i will be pregnant.
as he broke off with me last week.
im now currently overseas working.
i dont know what should i do.
can pregnancy kit in china trustable? i dont dare go buy, afraid to let my colleague know about it.
i have Abdominal Pain, Bloating, and feel Nausea at night.
does abdominal pain means that a sense of pulling feel?

will i be pregnant even he does not shoot in?

kind of very emotional right now, cos of the break off.
:bbconfused:

the chances of u getting preg is very high. since ur have unprotected sex at the 17th day. and also the symptons u're facing..

if u dun trust the kits in China, hw abt going to a reputable doctors or even hospital for a check?

 

[Phoebii Cheng]

You might be pregnant....so it is good if you can buy those pregnancy test kit to test or go see the doctor.....

If you are pregnant, you should let ur ex know......

 

[babylovess]

You might be pregnant....so it is good if you can buy those pregnancy test kit to test or go see the doctor.....

If you are pregnant, you should let your ex know......

the chances of you getting preg is very high. since your have unprotected sex at the 17th day. and also the symptons you're facing..

if you dont trust the kits in China, hw about going to a reputable doctors or even hospital for a check?

Chances are always higher for unprotected sex. To calm all doubts, strongly advise you to get tested... ie DIY kits asap. Buy d trusted brands. Prolong delays will only put yrself into more jiggy situation.

Honestly, based fm abv explanation, it's not at yr advantage. Pray hard I'm wrong though!!!
PM if you need advise.

thanks all, i will go get a kit tonight if i can go out alone.
will telling my ex solve anything?
i doubt he will keep the child if im pregnant.
im just away from him for 3mths in total. he changed.
i not sure if it is because he under financial problem.
he has too many break off reason i dont know if he telling the truth.
i felt so depressed.
i cant talk to my family about this, i haven even let them know about the break off.

 

[Phoebii Cheng]

It is not gg to solve anything by telling ur ex....but at least let him know that he is gg to have a bb.....

But if he don't want the bb, would you oso give it up?

 

[babylovess]

It is not gg to solve anything by telling your ex....but at least let him know that he is gg to have a baby.....

But if he dont't want the baby, would you also give it up?

he did keep asking if my menses coming, whenever i said no, he will like giving me another big blow telling me he no longer love me, we wont ever get back together and he got some one else already. its like within 2weeks everything changed. he asked me to abort the baby too.

of cos i wont give up, but i just dont know how to face everything.
i hope i will get pregnant but i dont know what im scared of.
i guess i cant think clearly now.

 

[babylovess]

hi all,

im really very confused now, i need advise.
my last menses are from 20 june to 27 june.
my ex and i have unprotected sex on 06 july.
im not sure if he did shoot in anot. but i know that he didnt clean up the first time and carry on with the second time immediately.
my menses should be on 18 july but its already late for 10days.
im so worried that i will be pregnant.
as he broke off with me last week.
im now currently overseas working.
i dont know what should i do.
can pregnancy kit in china trustable? i dont dare go buy, afraid to let my colleague know about it.
i have Abdominal Pain, Bloating, and feel Nausea at night.
does abdominal pain means that a sense of pulling feel?

will i be pregnant even he does not shoot in?

kind of very emotional right now, cos of the break off.
:bbconfused:

i made a mistake, my last menses should be 16 june - 20 june.
im already late for 15 days.
i have tested on the kit last night, result show negative.
will i still be pregnant if the result show negative?

 

[Phoebii Cheng]

i made a mistake, my last menses should be 16 june - 20 june.
im already late for 15 days.
i have tested on the kit last night, result show negative.
will i still be pregnant if the result show negative?

Then you might want to do a blood test, it is more accurate....

 

[babylovess]

Then you might want to do a blood test, it is more accurate....

any clinic can do the blood test? im not sure about the clinic here. ):

 

[Triquetra]

any clinic can do the blood test? im not sure about the clinic here. ):

When are you coming back to Singapore?

 

[TANZHENZHI]

Is your menses regular? If yes then most likely you're pregnant.

 

[Ting]

i believe u might be preg.
sorry to hear u hv such an arsehole ex bf.
right now, i think it is best that u go to a reputable hosp over there n do a blood or urine test.
if your menses r regular, high chances u might be preg, but then again, stress also cause your menses to be late.

 

[Gem2505]

Hi there. is ur menses here already? i would suggest u do a re-test on the test kit again after quite a few days since your first test. It may be due to "too early pregnancy stage" previously so the test kit could not detect yet. its advisable to do a re-test afew days later to have a firm answer.

sorry to hear that your "ex-bf" is kinda irresponsible. how could he say he dont love you after knowing you "might" be pregnant. i know love are blind but raising a child by yourself is not an easy task. re-think before you make any decision as it will affect the rest of your life deeply.

good luck.

 

[lekdao]

Hi,

If re-test, good to do is in the morning. The first urine of the day contains high HCG which give a better result.

 

[vivienshoshanna]

you really have to go to a doctor and have a check up right away, for you to make sure.

 

[fangying]

Hi, sorry to hear that about your ex-bf, he rly sounds like a jerk.. I hope you feel better soon. -hugs. You can pm me if you'd like to talk!