Mandy Wong
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Hi Mandy,Mandy,
Please clarify if the man is your BF or hubby? In your other post, he's your hubby. There is a difference between a BF and hubby. If it's my hubby, I will go to wherever my hubby is based at and return home bi monthly for visits to be with my dad. But if it's a BF, then, I won't go because obviously my dad is more important than a BF.
1) You don't think that you'll miss home as you're quite sick of your house. Moving overseas is an adventure. It may sound fun and exciting and thrilling and all the good stuff. But it should not be an escape. I don't know what's happening in your family or what are the dynamics. But I believe as much as you can be sick of your house or your family, your family will be there for you when you need help. Well, unless you do come from a very messed up family. What I'm trying to say is that you may think that you are sick of your family but there is still a chance that you might miss home especially if you have never live out of your family home before.Firstly, no im not the kind of person who will get homesick cus im quite sick of my house seriously. I might miss the food and familiarity here. Might sort of miss my job here..
Secondly, no i m not the kind who is very dependent on friends... Im instead very dependent on my bf. Like what you say i need his attention. Yes, i can go movie by myself. Actually most of the time i prefer either to be alone or to be with my bf only. Yes, im wierd.
The immigration visa is the tricky part,i can only get long term visa if we are married... hmmm.. marriage is indeed a heavy responsibility.. We are still trying to work things out thou.. hais. Do you have any suggestions?