i oso look after my bb myself but 5-6hr @ weekdaes, i let my grandma look after. cos my bb VERI hyperactive. sumtime maybe ur bb's stomach got wind go in , so u try ru yi lu to apply. bb onli noe hoe to cry when they need things.ya same.. i cant coax my boy no matter how i tried.. but my mum just carried over and my boy stop crying, then sleep in few minutes..
i also tink i am a failure, i cant even coax my own baby..
even more depressed when relatives come and witness all this..
wonder why my boy prefers my mum more..
sigh..
this wat i do every dae, morning bath him then make gripe water to let him drink. always burp him after milk. once a dae, use washing mouth lotion to wash his mouth to prevent the layers of milk stuck @ his tongue ,they will feel uncomfortable. n they need to poo poo. if they dun, they oso will feel uncomfortable.