angelwendy
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May i knw... if u r pregnant now... will u go to friends baby full month?? or go hospital visit friends who have just give birth? if NO... why is it not good? & wat will happen??:001_302:
I just visited my niece who just gave birth. I dont find its wrong to visit them. I mean... is there a believe that we cant visit them????
When I was pregnant with my daughter, my aunts did told me before.I also not sure... some people tell me that if i'm pregnant & go friends baby full month... i better dont't eat the full month cakes & red egg... i also dont't knw why is not good... they say is not good for my baby...
The old saying behind not carrying or touching other people's baby is that if in the event your baby is 'xiao qi' he or she will be angry that you are touching other babies and bad things may happen *touch wood*I also not sure... some people tell me that if i'm pregnant & go friends baby full month... i better dont't eat the full month cakes & red egg... i also dont't knw why is not good... they say is not good for my baby... :err: & also they say dont't carry or touch other peoples baby... cause one of my friend is giving birth next month.. so was thinking since i'm not working.. so tht of going to visit her...
I will not go due to superstition reason.May i knw... if you are pregnant now... will you go to friends baby full month?? or go hospital visit friends who have just give birth? if NO... why is it not good? & what will happen??:001_302:
To play safe, i wouldn't go.I will not go due to superstition reason.
Some unborn baby if too superstitious may be 'petty' then will have problems.
very serious case, mummy may lose the baby. =(
But I know that my friend with her son who after attending joyous occasion like 1st month, wedding, ete, eitehr her son gets very cranky after the event or fall sick...
you think about it. If you are superstious type, tell your friend about it and pass her some gift or token of gift. They should be able to understand the reasons why you cant go
yeah i agree. It's really up to the individual. I attended wedding dinners up to my 35w gestation. After that I din, was worried that will be paiseh if water breaks or wat during their happy event. lol =)It really depend on you. I attended my neice bday and also my neice full month. I think its okay. I also attended wedding dinner and will be attending holy matrimony in 2 mths time.