shulyn
Member
Hi Mummies,
Im in dilemma cos am going to accompany my hubby to china for his work and the mother is following too as she also need to bring stocks from there.
Hubby been in his business for the past 8 years and i have never follow him to china due to various reasons and finally now i get the chance to go and i dont feel happy at all...I hate to be separated from my hubby again as he just came back from china not long ago (25.03.10) and now he needed to go there urgently to source for new supplier.
I longed to go but didnt expect its such a long trip (11days), im so worried my son will be sad if im not around. I really dont know how to make myself happy...My mum and myself is the main caregiver for dear son and every night i will be with him to make him sleep and play with him in the day before i bring him to my mum around 12pm...Last month i went to KL for 3 days (dear son is 14mths), my mum say she did not dare to tell me if not she is sure i wont want to go travelling anymore. She say dear son keep calling out mama...
Im feeling so sad now cos i felt the timing isnt right as he gets to know the surrounding, dear son is responsive towards everything and he is sure to feel sad that how come the mummy is not there...
I told my families and hubby and they dont understand the mother's instinct. Comes to travelling i always follow him if i can but this time round i cant seems to let go myself. I have never been separated with my boy for the past 15mths, will dear son still as close to me when im back? When my hubby is outstation i will always feel so sad, will dear son feels the same as me? Im so scared that he will feel the difference when im not around...
I really dont know how to make myself feel better to go ahead for the trip...
Im in dilemma cos am going to accompany my hubby to china for his work and the mother is following too as she also need to bring stocks from there.
Hubby been in his business for the past 8 years and i have never follow him to china due to various reasons and finally now i get the chance to go and i dont feel happy at all...I hate to be separated from my hubby again as he just came back from china not long ago (25.03.10) and now he needed to go there urgently to source for new supplier.
I longed to go but didnt expect its such a long trip (11days), im so worried my son will be sad if im not around. I really dont know how to make myself happy...My mum and myself is the main caregiver for dear son and every night i will be with him to make him sleep and play with him in the day before i bring him to my mum around 12pm...Last month i went to KL for 3 days (dear son is 14mths), my mum say she did not dare to tell me if not she is sure i wont want to go travelling anymore. She say dear son keep calling out mama...
Im feeling so sad now cos i felt the timing isnt right as he gets to know the surrounding, dear son is responsive towards everything and he is sure to feel sad that how come the mummy is not there...
I told my families and hubby and they dont understand the mother's instinct. Comes to travelling i always follow him if i can but this time round i cant seems to let go myself. I have never been separated with my boy for the past 15mths, will dear son still as close to me when im back? When my hubby is outstation i will always feel so sad, will dear son feels the same as me? Im so scared that he will feel the difference when im not around...
I really dont know how to make myself feel better to go ahead for the trip...
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