Yvonne Lim
Member
Dear All,
I am a mum of 2, my 2nd daughter was born 16 days ago on 2 Jan... Like any parents we are so excited waiting for the arrival of our little princess, our elder gal is also excited waiting for the arrival of her little mei mei...
Finally I deliver my gal on 2 Jan, but our joy was short-lived... On the 2nd day the PD came to us to say that he need to do a chromosones test for our little gal cos she hv sutle signs of chromosones dis-order.. at that moment, I didnt expect that mean Down Syndrome.. I have done the OSCAR test and my ratio is 1 : 2100 and my detail scan shown all measurement to be normal too.. Even my gynea was surprise that the PD ask us to do a chromosones test and she say my gal looks perfectly fine.. but to our horror we found out that my little gal have DS a week later, she is diagonise with Trisomy 21..
I went hysterical and kept crying, I cant even carry her or look at her during the first week, last week (th 2nd week) we seek help with the DSA and spoke to the kind people there, I feel much better therafter.. However my mood and emotions still went up and down like roller coaster..
I have so many fears, uncertaintly, worries about the future..
Can some parents with DS child give me some advise and help...
I am a mum of 2, my 2nd daughter was born 16 days ago on 2 Jan... Like any parents we are so excited waiting for the arrival of our little princess, our elder gal is also excited waiting for the arrival of her little mei mei...
Finally I deliver my gal on 2 Jan, but our joy was short-lived... On the 2nd day the PD came to us to say that he need to do a chromosones test for our little gal cos she hv sutle signs of chromosones dis-order.. at that moment, I didnt expect that mean Down Syndrome.. I have done the OSCAR test and my ratio is 1 : 2100 and my detail scan shown all measurement to be normal too.. Even my gynea was surprise that the PD ask us to do a chromosones test and she say my gal looks perfectly fine.. but to our horror we found out that my little gal have DS a week later, she is diagonise with Trisomy 21..
I went hysterical and kept crying, I cant even carry her or look at her during the first week, last week (th 2nd week) we seek help with the DSA and spoke to the kind people there, I feel much better therafter.. However my mood and emotions still went up and down like roller coaster..
I have so many fears, uncertaintly, worries about the future..
Can some parents with DS child give me some advise and help...