yes, he really dont want to talk to me more, ask 1 question, answer 1 back, that all.
Advice, I have some doubts feeling
- Thread starter YanZee
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11.00 pm +++ ~ 12.00 pm +++
weekdays, no, weekend sometimes only.
around 6.30 am +++ to work, I need to follow him also, drop me at the MRT station.
he working as senior finance executive.
full of cigarette smoke smell, I know some only of his standard monthly expenses, I know how much is his gross & net salary, he always look tired & how do I know if really have affairs outside, quite sometimes he never do that with me already, no $$$ to engaged PI, maybe I will secretly do PI myself.
he smoke, drink occasionally.
Itsy Bitsy
New Member
YanZee,
Don't jump into conclusion immediately.
How old is your husband? Maybe he is having the 'mid-life crisis' ?
Or maybe he has problems at work, and does not want you and the children to worry, so he kept everything to himself?
I know it's tough when he does not want to talk or share with you.
But if possible, try to talk to him first, maybe by email or sms, or write a letter to him?
It's sad when we can't communicate with our partner anymore, but if we just jump into conclusion or getting paranoid of nothing, it does not help anything, and will only make things worse.
I hope you could filter the advices that have been given to you here with clear head.
Don't jump into conclusion immediately.
How old is your husband? Maybe he is having the 'mid-life crisis' ?
Or maybe he has problems at work, and does not want you and the children to worry, so he kept everything to himself?
I know it's tough when he does not want to talk or share with you.
But if possible, try to talk to him first, maybe by email or sms, or write a letter to him?
It's sad when we can't communicate with our partner anymore, but if we just jump into conclusion or getting paranoid of nothing, it does not help anything, and will only make things worse.
I hope you could filter the advices that have been given to you here with clear head.
he mid 30s.
how do I know he is having "mid life criss" as he dont want to talk to me if he is having some problems
or somethings else.
sometimes he wake up middle of the night, get out of the room smoke then sleep outside as I dont like
he after smoking sleep beside me later.
lately he cannot sleep well too.
how do I know he is having "mid life criss" as he dont want to talk to me if he is having some problems
or somethings else.
sometimes he wake up middle of the night, get out of the room smoke then sleep outside as I dont like
he after smoking sleep beside me later.
lately he cannot sleep well too.
yesterday morning I do PI myself, saw his car at the office parking bay, afternoon went to check again, not there already,
come back evening, out again after dinner, ask him, say, with friends later happy hour, only come back late night, sleep
at sofa whole night, saw me morning, go inside room & continue sleeping.
Unforgiven
Member
I'm not sure he lying me or not, yes he really lost interest in the family, no more family outing together, no more going holidays together,
no more spending quality times with our daughter, even ME too.
Unforgiven
Member
if he is not lying then where did he go. He have being telling u he is working OT and going to work. I think u better be on the lookout