Hi, i need some advise should i keep the baby or not?
I cut my story short.. I have a kid 15 years old. Me & my ex husband have been trying for baby many many years. But no results at all.
Till this few years he got affair and we decided divorce. So we are now still under separating.
1 year ago, i met this guy. He is married and he told me that he had no feeling with his wife.
After awhile am touch with certain things he do and fall in love with him. We are now in a un-open relationship for 7 months.
I know is wrong and ask for many times break off. But end up we still back together again.
He knows my situation and I know his.
But now am pregnant for 8 weeks. It was a surprise to me and him. Because both of us are desperate for baby.
He married for 7 years and no result at all. This goes same to me. But am really miserable to keep the baby or not.
I thought in my life i will only have this child but now god give me another child that i wish for many years, shall i just give up like tat?
But this child come at the wrong time or would i say wrong person too.
Because i might not giving this child a proper family as i believe he will not divorce even tho he say he does not love her.
I hope ladies out there could give me some advice that i really can't share this openly to my friends and they will scold me stupid.
Why make yourself so suffer. But if i abort this child am afraid that i might regret one day. Due to prevois medical issue, doctor did mention am quite difficult to get pregnant. That why this child is really a surprise to me.
God bless to all lovely mom and thanks for reading.
I cut my story short.. I have a kid 15 years old. Me & my ex husband have been trying for baby many many years. But no results at all.
Till this few years he got affair and we decided divorce. So we are now still under separating.
1 year ago, i met this guy. He is married and he told me that he had no feeling with his wife.
After awhile am touch with certain things he do and fall in love with him. We are now in a un-open relationship for 7 months.
I know is wrong and ask for many times break off. But end up we still back together again.
He knows my situation and I know his.
But now am pregnant for 8 weeks. It was a surprise to me and him. Because both of us are desperate for baby.
He married for 7 years and no result at all. This goes same to me. But am really miserable to keep the baby or not.
I thought in my life i will only have this child but now god give me another child that i wish for many years, shall i just give up like tat?
But this child come at the wrong time or would i say wrong person too.
Because i might not giving this child a proper family as i believe he will not divorce even tho he say he does not love her.
I hope ladies out there could give me some advice that i really can't share this openly to my friends and they will scold me stupid.
Why make yourself so suffer. But if i abort this child am afraid that i might regret one day. Due to prevois medical issue, doctor did mention am quite difficult to get pregnant. That why this child is really a surprise to me.
God bless to all lovely mom and thanks for reading.
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