does your hubby chat up gals in the internet?
- Thread starter pink_daisy
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Just wondering what do man really want.. Married but still wanna fool around, when kena caught,die die dont want admit.. and to all those woman who like to seduce pple husband, pls for goodness sake stop breaking happy family up... Well, actually it takes both hand to clap..
mayb we women wanna do the same thing to them too so that they wil feel how we felt? hehe.. =p
mayb we women wanna do the same thing to them too so that they wil feel how we felt? hehe.. =p
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lumpy
New Member
agree w pink daisy...not many men can resist e temptations...but of course such things takes 2 hands to clap as well...so those girls r at fault as well...
watever e case...i think we shld always give our hubby benefit of e doubt...unless we can find concrete proof....
shiseru
Member
Very fishy, i think you should find out more, but discreetly. I had experienced something pretty similar to yours and it happened during our 7th year of marraige,（七年之痒）but we managed to save the marriage.
You will know when your man's behavior changes, called it the "women" 6th sense.
Yuki Miaka
Member
DADDY, watch out, ur wife is behind u now....whoa hahaAiyo.... I posts here... consider chatting up gals a not?
I also got facebook...
Jiat lat....
Daddy D
Alpha Male
wahaha! I SAW tat!!
Hey... there are some software tools to track/monitor/spy msn activities and handphone sms... just google... but dunno which ones... I'm sure some offices monitor msn activites 2...
Spiralng
Well-Known Member
Mostly take 7yr before the itch become unbearable. 1-2years honeymoon stage. 3-4years adjustablement stage. 5-6 years take it for granted stage. 7years....what do u think??? after keeping it in the pants for soooo long and wif the same partner is the "try to be funny stage".
shiseru
Member
Yes, 7th year itch can apply to woman, one of my friend got an affair outside, reason is bcoz husband cannot give her an orgasm.
As for me, it's a long story but i have to say the reason why our marriage has gone south, i had to bear part of the responsibility, i was so busy that I have neglected my family, hence...
mistheblue, i share with you my story but briefly, coz if i tell the whole story, i can write a series of trilogy.
I taught my hubby ICQ, he came to know this lady from JB, he was learning driving in JB so often went in to Malaysia.
When I sensed something was wrong, I checked his chat history. When he realised, he deleted. I created a new user in ICQ and managed to befriend this lady.
The lady told me she loved my husband but my husband didnt seem willing to get further involved. After a good 3 months, all he did was to hold hands, and she was always the one who has to take initiative.
This was also the reason why I wanted to stop this thing and saved the marriage before further mistakes were made.
I confronted my husband, initially we decided to divorce but at the same time we understand each other too well. Both of us knew we will regret later if we chose to divorce. We were determine to save this marraige together, I have resigned and found another job so i can have more time with my family and he has stopped all communication with the lady (change his hp, deleted ICQ).
God has put us both through this ordeal and we both managed to overcome. But again it takes both hands to clap, one to realise, and one to forgive. Most importantly, both of you are serious, and willing to put in effort to save the relationship/marriage.
As for me, it's a long story but i have to say the reason why our marriage has gone south, i had to bear part of the responsibility, i was so busy that I have neglected my family, hence...
mistheblue, i share with you my story but briefly, coz if i tell the whole story, i can write a series of trilogy.
I taught my hubby ICQ, he came to know this lady from JB, he was learning driving in JB so often went in to Malaysia.
When I sensed something was wrong, I checked his chat history. When he realised, he deleted. I created a new user in ICQ and managed to befriend this lady.
The lady told me she loved my husband but my husband didnt seem willing to get further involved. After a good 3 months, all he did was to hold hands, and she was always the one who has to take initiative.
This was also the reason why I wanted to stop this thing and saved the marriage before further mistakes were made.
I confronted my husband, initially we decided to divorce but at the same time we understand each other too well. Both of us knew we will regret later if we chose to divorce. We were determine to save this marraige together, I have resigned and found another job so i can have more time with my family and he has stopped all communication with the lady (change his hp, deleted ICQ).
God has put us both through this ordeal and we both managed to overcome. But again it takes both hands to clap, one to realise, and one to forgive. Most importantly, both of you are serious, and willing to put in effort to save the relationship/marriage.
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misstheblue
Member
yesterday nite i check on his phone again....nothing suspicious... he remove the password n i can't find the lady contact anymore.
jal
Member
Spiralng, you are sooo funny!!! Hahaha!!!
jal
Member
It is good that your hubby removed the password as this shows he is not afraid of hiding anything from you, because he has nothing to hide.
Can I ask this? My hubby always delete intenet history before shutting down the pc. I dont like him deleting so I asked him what was the purpose. He said he does not like me to spot check on him & he does not want me to get suspicious of him (Background info: 2 years ago, I saw 3 FHM page history recorded. And in the beginning of this year, I saw a Blackbook page record. I was damn bloody furious but I managed to control myself & asked him calmly why is that record there. He said it was due to a spam mail, & it is not his fault. So since then I have been doing regular spot checks when my hubby is not around.) He even questioned me why the hell I have to spot check on him? Is it because I dont trust him? If I dont trust him, why did I marry him???
Ladies, if it were you, how will you answer him??? You want to get your hubby to STOP deleting internet history but how are you going to convince him???
jal
Member
No, he did not have that habit before. It was only after I confronted him about Blackbook did he start to delete internet history. He said Blackbook appeared in the record due to spam mail. And the very first time, he said he has no idea why FHM appeared in the history record. Both times, he yelled at me, as if to protest his innocence or to express outrage that I 'invaded' his privacy. And both times, he said the same thing "DO you TRUST me or not???!!! If not, just go our separate ways! Dont marry me & distrust me & make me suffer!!!"
Queenbabe
Well-Known Member
See always the women sacrifice more .... if we are the one busy working neglect the family they confirm will do something behind our back ... There will be women having affair outside but the chances of it is lesser i think ...
Queenbabe
Well-Known Member
Hahahaha .. itchy all day long lorr ... endure for 7yrs once after 7yrs is to release lorr :001_302:
jal
Member
How does one make men admit that they are GUILTY??? It is like, they would rather get a divorce rather than to admit that they are guilty. Besides, they an always argue "Which blardy eye of yours saw me looking at that page???"