EDD June 2012 Mummies

[MrsWang]

Yup. Actually got people help will feel more relax.. sometimes feeding is like a chore to me. But when I see baby's face, I know all is worthwhile.

Joey is indeed very tired.. nobody helping and have to do housework. Sometimes I feel I'm still a child myself. abit another tired liao.. den Mil have to take care.. not ready for sacrifices yet..

 

[Jenni]

Yup. Actually got people help will feel more relax.. sometimes feeding is like a chore to me. But when I see baby's face, I know all is worthwhile.

Joey is indeed very tired.. nobody helping and have to do housework. Sometimes I feel I'm still a child myself. abit another tired liao.. den Mil have to take care.. not ready for sacrifices yet..

Mummies, if still on confinement jus let ur family or ur CL to do the feeding, unless u latch on then u feed urself, my confinement till now day 16, I only latch on baby when I in hospital, at home I only feed few time when CL not free, other then that CL do the feeding...

Now maybe I carry too much my #2 my back start to pain... Have to try not to carry her anymore... My back cannot ta han... If don rest more after confinement u are on ur own then u will think how gd is to have ppl help...

 

[Joeychen85]

Mrs Wang - yeah I'm seriously very fired.. But can't mention to any 1 at all.. Cos there won't have help out too.. Even my hubby.. Haiz.. Gt 1 time I told him to do some tin for me when he playin his game.. Den very sad tat he reply me tis , " I no nid to always give in to u rite ? I won't stop playing my game.. ".. From tat day onward .. I nvr mention my tired to him anymore.. Cos like I knee dwn n force him to give in to me... I will nvr ever beg ppl to give in to me .. Nt in d pass n future.. Den when his frens ask him bout did we planning to have 2nd 1, Same quest to from my mum too.. Although I told them nt at. Moment.. But actually I dun wish to have 2nd 1.. As I dun wan gena depression.. I'm sure 2nd 1 sure will gena.. Cos more stress .. Nid to tk care of my boy myself n have to suffer d pain for 2nd 1.. N yet still must hear he repeat d word again.. No way.. Unless he can give up d game.. If nt , NO WAY..

 

[Dreamalyn]

Haiz Joey...i oso almost the same plight as u...i m alone during working hours; have to do everything by myself...but hubby got help when he's back from work lah..but middle of nite i m alone again as hubby need to sleep since he is working the next day. It wont be so bad for me if my wrists were not injured. Have been to the doc twice liao...now waiting to do physio therapy....i m struggling everyday oso...really hope can have some help during the day... Then my bb wake up every hour during the nite for a feed...i super tired loh. Hopefully it's just a growing spurt n will be over soon....

 

[Jenni]

Mrs Wang - yeah I'm seriously very fired.. But can't mention to any 1 at all.. Cos there won't have help out too.. Even my hubby.. Haiz.. Gt 1 time I told him to do some tin for me when he playin his game.. Den very sad tat he reply me tis , " I no nid to always give in to u rite ? I won't stop playing my game.. ".. From tat day onward .. I nvr mention my tired to him anymore.. Cos like I knee dwn n force him to give in to me... I will nvr ever beg ppl to give in to me .. Nt in d pass n future.. Den when his frens ask him bout did we planning to have 2nd 1, Same quest to from my mum too.. Although I told them nt at. Moment.. But actually I dun wish to have 2nd 1.. As I dun wan gena depression.. I'm sure 2nd 1 sure will gena.. Cos more stress .. Nid to tk care of my boy myself n have to suffer d pain for 2nd 1.. N yet still must hear he repeat d word again.. No way.. Unless he can give up d game.. If nt , NO WAY..

Relax maybe one day he will change... Me too... My hubby don help me much too... Now the most help with my 2 elder coz he Donno how to handle baby...

 

[Jenni]

Haiz Joey...i oso almost the same plight as u...i m alone during working hours; have to do everything by myself...but hubby got help when he's back from work lah..but middle of nite i m alone again as hubby need to sleep since he is working the next day. It wont be so bad for me if my wrists were not injured. Have been to the doc twice liao...now waiting to do physio therapy....i m struggling everyday oso...really hope can have some help during the day... Then my bb wake up every hour during the nite for a feed...i super tired loh. Hopefully it's just a growing spurt n will be over soon....

For the night feeding maybe 1 more mth and u can train ur baby to slp thru the night... That's wat I do, nite feeding is very tired so when times come I will let baby slp thru so I don need wake up at nite...

 

[snowdoll]

Jenni, any tips on how to train baby to sleep thru the night? I'm hoping for that mann..

 

[MrsWang]

Wah Joey.. ur husband is too much. How can he say that.. husband should dote on wife de. if me, I sure quarrel with him. 女怕嫁错朗.. before marriage one pattern, after marriage all pattern out. Scared one day my hubby also like that.

 

[Joeychen85]

Hai... If we can kno early , predict early.. Den police won't wear short in d pass lo.. Wat to do... Will only kno all d fact last min , there's notin we can kno early de lo.. if nt I also won't marry him.. Blind.. I'm totally blind.. I was like tkin care bb 24/7.. N he leh , still able to rest few hrs in 1 shot.. Me have to feed every 2 hrs.. can't even have a nice slp lo.. N is damn tired , complain I'm tired , but wat I get from him is tis all.. So sadz.. But every time c bb slp soundly , n laugh while slppin.. I feel more calm n relax.. Den will fall slp.. So wat I can do is focus on tkin care of him lo.. Try nt to ask him help Liao.. Ah Bo mayb there's more awful words from his mouth...

Jenni -dun mind share wif us d tips.. But my boy is very impatient 1.. Once hungry sure will scream till d lung out.. If I nvr feed him rite away.. If I stop feed him d nite.. Tin whole block will blast by his voice lo.. N I wonder is , I tot gynae n nurse say , must feed them regularly every 3 hr.. Cannot more den 4 hrs.. If we stop.. Den is like more den 4 hrs rite? Is tis allow? Wont affect bb?

 

[Joeychen85]

Dreamalyn - nw I understand ur pain Liao.. My wrist , shoulder will feel sharp pain when I trying to carry heavy tin.. Specially bb.. Will like numb till cramp bits.. My legs too.. Must carry him n walk around den he won't cry ( scream ).. Nw my both hand some time will feel like ko energy lo.. Super tired..

 

[MrsWang]

or joey.. u can try to be xiao nu ren?? sometimes sa jiao to him? maybe like that he will be willing to help you?? guys sometimes like xiao nu ren better.. rather than those strong-headed ones...

 

[eve34]

Ya jenni care to share with us how to make Bb sleep through the night? My confinement ending next wed morning (at 6.30 the CL gotta leave) n these two days I'm trying to do everything myself liao (except bathing bb n cooking) n I'm super tired. Now night time still have CL looking after bb so I can still rest but m still waking up to pump milk lor. Think I sleep 5-6 hours a day only. If NB can sleep through the night n I can time my pumping at night I can at least sleep longer.

 

[Joeychen85]

Mrs Wang - I dun use to b xiao nu ren.. Tats y.. I can't change my attidude.. Difficult to change also.. Haiz.. Some more if I change b cos of him, den is nt myself anymore lo..

 

[Amazingpig]

Newborn hard to sleep thru night. Unless u can tahan the pathetic cry, very sad one. The tears roll down, then the legs kicking hard. Like i owe her a lot of money.
2-3 month should be better, when they grow bigger and can contain more milk in their stomach. Slowly bah...

 

[MrsWang]

lol amazingpig.. cant la.. baby cry have to feed lo..

but joey sometimes u want things for the better, den have to compromise abit.. since also marry liao.. dont make the relationship sour.

 

[yukim]

Baby can't slp in Yao LAN and on bed, he get scare very easily .... He only can slp on stomach but my mum say he too small and not gd for health... How?

 

[velvetglory]

Baby can't slp in Yao LAN and on bed, he get scare very easily .... He only can slp on stomach but my mum say he too small and not gd for health... How?

Did you swaddle him? Swaddling baby, they won't so easily get scare. You believe in Chinese medicine if yes try "Jin feng san 惊风散" I gave it to my son every morning after showering and every evening after wiping his body. It help to calm the baby.

 

[Carol80]

Hi ladies, may I ask if any of the ladies who c sec has started Jamu massage? How's the process like? I am starting next week. Hope she won't rub too hard which may hurt the wound.

 

[snowdoll]

Carol,may I know how many weeks are u at now? For me,only 2 weeks...I dun dare to do massage yet, I also dunno when can start doing.

 

[Carol80]

Snowdoll, I am 27 days Liao. Massage mostly other parts of body except tummy. The wind in tummy is getting worse hence ask my masseur to gently release the wind to make me feel better @ Day 25 & 27. The gas smelled really bad! Starting my Jamu massage next week after confinement.