anyone tot of going through confinement period alone?
I don't really mean alone alone, more of not having someone 24 hours staying with you (e.g. Confinement lady, MIL or Mother etc).
I really cannot stand having stranger in my home, so confinement lady is out. then probably I also don't really need my MIL or Mum to be with me the whole day. As you never know, sometime if you spend too long a time with your MIL or mum, may end up hurting the relationship (if you know what I mean).
So my plan is to order confinement food and also where possible breastfeed (saving the hassle to wash bottles etc..)
Things to do for BB will be feeding, bathing, soothing, changing diapers, playing (which I believe as a mum you will definitely wan to do it)
Other things that will need to do
- feed myself (can settle by ordering food), hubby can dabao food home for himself or go MIL place once in a while to eat.
- laundry (I can throw into the washing machine, when hubby come back, help me hang)
- Basic cleaning the house like mopping floor etc (hubby or myself can do in the evening when he's home from work)
then occasionally if mum or MIL wanna drop by they can help me bath BB or hang laundry etc..
From the above, i truely felt that I should be able to cope the 4-5 weeks without someone living in with us to help out. Are there any major concerns that I left out? I'll be glad for any advice.
I don't really mean alone alone, more of not having someone 24 hours staying with you (e.g. Confinement lady, MIL or Mother etc).
I really cannot stand having stranger in my home, so confinement lady is out. then probably I also don't really need my MIL or Mum to be with me the whole day. As you never know, sometime if you spend too long a time with your MIL or mum, may end up hurting the relationship (if you know what I mean).
So my plan is to order confinement food and also where possible breastfeed (saving the hassle to wash bottles etc..)
Things to do for BB will be feeding, bathing, soothing, changing diapers, playing (which I believe as a mum you will definitely wan to do it)
Other things that will need to do
- feed myself (can settle by ordering food), hubby can dabao food home for himself or go MIL place once in a while to eat.
- laundry (I can throw into the washing machine, when hubby come back, help me hang)
- Basic cleaning the house like mopping floor etc (hubby or myself can do in the evening when he's home from work)
then occasionally if mum or MIL wanna drop by they can help me bath BB or hang laundry etc..
From the above, i truely felt that I should be able to cope the 4-5 weeks without someone living in with us to help out. Are there any major concerns that I left out? I'll be glad for any advice.