i'm also sending mine to infant care when she's 8 mths old cuz the family maid can help to take care of her when I'm back at work for the first 6 mths only. Probably will send to PCF Sparkletots.whoa ur mil is exactly d same as my mil! Leg always pain . My mum has alot of comments with parenting too so I dun want her to take care of confinement too. I may send my #1 to infantcare too if I can't handle. No choice but I think I will cry if I leave him there hehee
my mil is under some depression and hallucination problem, so it's too dangerous to pass the child to her to take care. and also like Stephy's, the hygiene standard is not there.