No matter what ,words may be harsh,but we all hope you can untie and work out a more meaningful life.If you chose to remain where you are now,whereby our comments didint serve any help,then forever you will be having the feelings you are having now.Hi, really not expecting so many comments and feedback.
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Cherish what u hv...all the bestHi, really not expecting so many comments and feedback.
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Yes, my hubby is the same. He doesnt coach my DS1, doesnt feed him or wash him up. Everything Im the one who do it. But I make him pay for all household expenses since I'm doing all the job in the family. The only thing I complain about is, he doesnt help out in the housework. Sometimes I close one eyes, as long, as I'm in a good mood. But if he starts his nonsense by throwing things around or not putting things in proper order. I get frustrated and starting complaining again. FYI, my hubby has a hobby which takes up quite abit of his time, even during the weekend. But I don't mind becos I have my DS1 to comfort me. That's my priority.After reading long post, I dont't quite understand what you actually expect your hubby to do. I think you should sit down & think about what you really want your dear husband to contribute to the family. Then find a good time to have a heart to heart talk with him, also to let him know about your expectations & find out if he is comfortable to meet them... Be prepared to compromise if you want your marriage to work.
There are similar elements that you mentioned that my dear husband has too.... He has no hobby, dont't drink or smoke or goes out with his friends. All which I consider favorable to me. dear husband also dont't coach or teach DS1 anything except playing the Wii. I also make most of the decisions, which I dont't mind coz I am the better thinker between us. I make dear husband pay for all household expenses, so he actually has to take on some freelance jobs... He spends lesser time with me but I dont't mind coz he is slogging hard to provide us a better life.
Despite many harsh comments, it is very obvious that everyone here wants to see you and your husband united again. For the sake of your daughter and yourselves.Hi, really not expecting so many comments and feedback.
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