apollo
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i'm sure all mummies here envy u alot! i dont if my mil will change in future but hopefully she stays lik what she is now.I've been living with my inlaws for 2 years now, and everything i'd say quite ok...
My mother in law take care of me during pregnancy and confinement, she's a good cook and also friendly. I'd say she's very nice person. Giving me and my husband our own space in their house... I'm quite grateful to have them as inlaws.
After my 1st baby, my inlaws become closer to us, my brother in law and sister In law also i feel are more open to me. My mother in law would take care of the baby when i need to go out for a while, and she dont't mind it.
But as much as they gave a space for me, I'd do the same to them too... I try not to burden them so much in taking care my baby or even taking care of myself.. like doing my own laundry, cleaning, cooking my own stuff whenever my inlaws go out. Try not too depend on my inlaws in taking care of our own small family.
In fact it's my own mom who is a control freak haha!
If she came over she would nag nag nag that my mother in law way of taking care baby is not the correct way... aiyoo.. headache i tell you!
The good thing living with inlaws is they can help taking care of baby when I need a break... rather than hiring nanny.
grand mil has many sons but she only wants to live alone. hopefully my pil also will think this way when they grow old... :tlaugh: