I'm very sad lately. I feel that my husband doesnt want to get intimate anymore after I had a baby.
My dear daughter is coming to 8 months. We've had BD maybe only 3 times since dear daughter is born.. How can it be? I kept asking myself. I asked him too, always joking to him why he can stop asking for sex? How did he settle his needs himself? He said he knows I'm tired. Which is true but I m not always tired. Plus, shouldnt we both try to find time to get to bed early so we can get some intimacy?
At first I really tell myself we are both tired. But sex only 3 times over this 8 months is ridiculous. I'm getting worried.
Does this happen to you girls? Can someone tell me if this is normal? I feel very depressed and feel that he's treating me this way because he doesn't find me attractive anymore. Do you have to schedule with your husband so as to really b getting to bed to do it?
My dear daughter is coming to 8 months. We've had BD maybe only 3 times since dear daughter is born.. How can it be? I kept asking myself. I asked him too, always joking to him why he can stop asking for sex? How did he settle his needs himself? He said he knows I'm tired. Which is true but I m not always tired. Plus, shouldnt we both try to find time to get to bed early so we can get some intimacy?
At first I really tell myself we are both tired. But sex only 3 times over this 8 months is ridiculous. I'm getting worried.
Does this happen to you girls? Can someone tell me if this is normal? I feel very depressed and feel that he's treating me this way because he doesn't find me attractive anymore. Do you have to schedule with your husband so as to really b getting to bed to do it?
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