When we had our 1st kid, hubby did not dare to carry or look after bb at all... He had to be taught from basics and even supervised all the time. He only got the hang of it after bb was abt 4mths. When we just had our 2nd kid, he was a confidant daddy who helped look after bb from day 1. But of course he needs to be reminded & supervised once in a while coz he is not as consecitious as my mum or me.
We are both working, but I make him do all the night feeds... Coz I did most of it for our 1st kid. Nonetheless I still have the habit of waking up a few times at night to check both my kids are ok (too cold, too hot, tangled in blanket etc)
We are both working, but I make him do all the night feeds... Coz I did most of it for our 1st kid. Nonetheless I still have the habit of waking up a few times at night to check both my kids are ok (too cold, too hot, tangled in blanket etc)