leefionyap
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when i got rom 7yrs ago, i stay with my in laws. after one your, my dear husband and i intend to have our wedding dinner, so my father ask me to ask my mother in law how many table does she intend to give my father. mother-in-law reply "table? what table?" i speechless. dont tell me she never attend wedding dinner before?
not long after, my brother-in-law make his gf preg, as their are cathelic, my in-laws insist keeping the baby. however, my brother in law did not have $$ for his wedding, so ask my pils to pay his wedding. my mother in law say "ok but you have to promise me 3 things. 1. you and your gf have to acompany me to church every sunday. 2, the baby have to baptism 3. when you have your own house, you must have a mother mary in your house"
when i knew it, i am very shocked. it your own son, it not that you are poor, you are quite rich. is it that difficult to help? my brother in law gf that time is only 20, my brother in law is 28.
when come to their wedding dinner, my parent in law say will give my brother in law gf side 5 tables. however, when my brother in law told them to foot the wedding dinner bill on that night first, as he have no $$. my parent in law insists NO. My brother in law wedding dinner gf side 5 table, my brother in law & his gf 5 table, the rest 10 table is my parent in law church firends. End of the day, my parent in law refuse to foot the bill, in the end no wedding dinner.
then i ask my mother in law how about the 5 table you promise the gf father? my mother in law say, give when the baby first month. when i hear this, i very pity the gf.
That year dec, my husband have a big quarrel with his mother over $$. then my husband decided to move out of his parents house, (during that time we rent out our own house because we thought we are going to USA for 2 year posting). So on the 31st of dec that year, we shift out of their house and move in to our own house and stay with our tenant.
the day we move out, my mother in law told us to return her house key to them. we did and from that day onward, we never keep contact, not even our wedding and chinese new year and it been 5 yrs.
now we are parents, i ask my dear husband if he want to visit his mum (my parent in law just stay across the road from us). dear husband say no as he is happy now, not need to do what ppl say.
i know a lot of ppl here will say we are bu xiao , but without a mother in law in my life, it trouble free lols.
not long after, my brother-in-law make his gf preg, as their are cathelic, my in-laws insist keeping the baby. however, my brother in law did not have $$ for his wedding, so ask my pils to pay his wedding. my mother in law say "ok but you have to promise me 3 things. 1. you and your gf have to acompany me to church every sunday. 2, the baby have to baptism 3. when you have your own house, you must have a mother mary in your house"
when i knew it, i am very shocked. it your own son, it not that you are poor, you are quite rich. is it that difficult to help? my brother in law gf that time is only 20, my brother in law is 28.
when come to their wedding dinner, my parent in law say will give my brother in law gf side 5 tables. however, when my brother in law told them to foot the wedding dinner bill on that night first, as he have no $$. my parent in law insists NO. My brother in law wedding dinner gf side 5 table, my brother in law & his gf 5 table, the rest 10 table is my parent in law church firends. End of the day, my parent in law refuse to foot the bill, in the end no wedding dinner.
then i ask my mother in law how about the 5 table you promise the gf father? my mother in law say, give when the baby first month. when i hear this, i very pity the gf.
That year dec, my husband have a big quarrel with his mother over $$. then my husband decided to move out of his parents house, (during that time we rent out our own house because we thought we are going to USA for 2 year posting). So on the 31st of dec that year, we shift out of their house and move in to our own house and stay with our tenant.
the day we move out, my mother in law told us to return her house key to them. we did and from that day onward, we never keep contact, not even our wedding and chinese new year and it been 5 yrs.
now we are parents, i ask my dear husband if he want to visit his mum (my parent in law just stay across the road from us). dear husband say no as he is happy now, not need to do what ppl say.
i know a lot of ppl here will say we are bu xiao , but without a mother in law in my life, it trouble free lols.
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