old age ttc advice...

[zie]

alamak...i cant remember left or rite..after giv birth, memory seems poor ar. i think left..abt 1 cm lyke dat. so far no prob onli wen during preg it bothers me a bit..feel like cramp..

 

[Oink]

Hi Oink n Zie,

May i know how big is ur cycst n which part left or right? Do they bother u??
As for me the cycst on my left ovary bothers me so much tt it make my menstrual hurts alot.. I ask the gynae whtr the cycst will make us hard to conceive n she say it wont..

I had 1 big one - abt 5-6cm on the right (i think) abt 3 years ago & did a op to remove it plus some smaller ones... then 3 yrs later (now), I had some smaller ones growing again... tis time on the left. When I 1st remove, the menstrual cramps are not painful... but nowadays getting more & more painful... dun know is it bcos of cysts or cos I was on long term clomid for a while. Someone told me b4 that Clomid might also affect the cramps leh. Hmm...

 

[Oink]

alamak...i cant remember left or rite..after giv birth, memory seems poor ar. i think left..abt 1 cm lyke dat. so far no prob onli wen during preg it bothers me a bit..feel like cramp..

Zie... so how much to pay for the massage? Call the lady to make appt?

 

[justforgags]

alamak...i cant remember left or rite..after giv birth, memory seems poor ar. i think left..abt 1 cm lyke dat. so far no prob onli wen during preg it bothers me a bit..feel like cramp..

do u remove them? hw r u now? do u feel bad cramp during menses? they say it will goes off together with the deliver of the bb..

I had 1 big one - abt 5-6cm on the right (i think) abt 3 years ago & did a op to remove it plus some smaller ones... then 3 yrs later (now), I had some smaller ones growing again... tis time on the left. When I 1st remove, the menstrual cramps are not painful... but nowadays getting more & more painful... dun know is it bcos of cysts or cos I was on long term clomid for a while. Someone told me b4 that Clomid might also affect the cramps leh. Hmm...

hmm.. im waitin for my SGH doc suggestion on tis.. *sighz*

Oink,

Me too had cyst till i gav birth its still there..but doesnt affect fertility..b4 dat we had even wen for iui once but failed so nvr try again..
Well doctors found nothing wrong with us but actually there realli something wrong with me that doc cant detect...hah..thanks to e massage lady who able to detect wats wrong wit me..Its no massage centre, just a normal lady who comes to my hse to do post natal massages.if only i knew earlier to consult her then wudnt hav to wait soo long.. GOD has test me for something dat i did wrong b4..dats y hard to conceive..

Its lucky tt u've found the right massage lady cz my friends sister got married n tried for a bb for 3yrs n dint conceive n go for massage anywhr n everywhr they hear its good so its been goin for almost 8yrs n they stop massaging n they conceive naturally aft 2yrs so total of 10yrs waitin aft marriage.. Afraid to go for massage lah, tinkin eat medication is better.. Mebbe its up to individual tinkin:001_302:

 

[zie]

Zie... so how much to pay for the massage? Call the lady to make appt?

per session whole body is $40 at ur own hm..u tried any b4? if u reali keen to try in order to conceive, i cn help u recc her..A malay aunty, nice lady,hav to call her for appt.
But of coz u musnt hav any major fertility prob..aniway she will ask some questions..u hav to let her noe ur reason ie wanna conceive..so she can assist u..

 

[justforgags]

per session whole body is $40 at ur own hm..u tried any b4? if u reali keen to try in order to conceive, i cn help u recc her..A malay aunty, nice lady,hav to call her for appt.
But of coz u musnt hav any major fertility prob..aniway she will ask some questions..u hav to let her noe ur reason ie wanna conceive..so she can assist u..

hi zie, may i noe whr do tis aunty stay?

 

[duhduh]

per session whole body is $40 at ur own hm..u tried any b4? if u reali keen to try in order to conceive, i cn help u recc her..A malay aunty, nice lady,hav to call her for appt.
But of coz u musnt hav any major fertility prob..aniway she will ask some questions..u hav to let her noe ur reason ie wanna conceive..so she can assist u..

Hi, think we all are interested! Can help ask which area she doesnt go? hahaha...easier for us. Major ferility prob refers to?

 

[Oink]

per session whole body is $40 at ur own hm..u tried any b4? if u reali keen to try in order to conceive, i cn help u recc her..A malay aunty, nice lady,hav to call her for appt.
But of coz u musnt hav any major fertility prob..aniway she will ask some questions..u hav to let her noe ur reason ie wanna conceive..so she can assist u..

ya, Zie... if it helps, i dun mind trying... but when do we do the massage? after period? nearer ovulation... anything to help, i guess i will try. Been trying for too long... & wif no obvious problems.

Thanks!

Oh! can i ask a silly question... haha! Where does she do the massage? on the bed? on the floor? won't the bed/floor be oily after that?

 

[lawla12]

erm...can i check...massage then helps in wad area arrr ???

 

[marlysha]

per session whole body is $40 at ur own hm..u tried any b4? if u reali keen to try in order to conceive, i cn help u recc her..A malay aunty, nice lady,hav to call her for appt.
But of coz u musnt hav any major fertility prob..aniway she will ask some questions..u hav to let her noe ur reason ie wanna conceive..so she can assist u..

hi zie...

im interested to know toooooooo....

 

[marlysha]

ya, Zie... if it helps, i dun mind trying... but when do we do the massage? after period? nearer ovulation... anything to help, i guess i will try. Been trying for too long... & wif no obvious problems.

Thanks!

Oh! can i ask a silly question... haha! Where does she do the massage? on the bed? on the floor? won't the bed/floor be oily after that?

usually...it will be on the floor...just put a matteress...a thin one will do...or either can place a mat on the floor....tats wat i always do...

 

[zie]

ya, Zie... if it helps, i dun mind trying... but when do we do the massage? after period? nearer ovulation... anything to help, i guess i will try. Been trying for too long... & wif no obvious problems.

Thanks!

Oh! can i ask a silly question... haha! Where does she do the massage? on the bed? on the floor? won't the bed/floor be oily after that?

shud b after period..u can ask her for more details..better on e floor..any matress will do..easier for her to do massage.will b bit oily but ok lar juz clean up after dat..ancing_wub:
this aunty stay bt panjang.
but don xpect miracle to happen overnite..she only do her job with e help of The Above..only GOD decides everything...but must stay positive n keep trying lar..
i will ask her first if anyone reali keen to try..can pm me for her contact.

 

[justforgags]

shud b after period..u can ask her for more details..better on e floor..any matress will do..easier for her to do massage.will b bit oily but ok lar juz clean up after dat..ancing_wub:
this aunty stay bt panjang.
but don xpect miracle to happen overnite..she only do her job with e help of The Above..only GOD decides everything...but must stay positive n keep trying lar..
i will ask her first if anyone reali keen to try..can pm me for her contact.

thx for the info..

 

[lawla12]

shud b after period..u can ask her for more details..better on e floor..any matress will do..easier for her to do massage.will b bit oily but ok lar juz clean up after dat..ancing_wub:
this aunty stay bt panjang.
but don xpect miracle to happen overnite..she only do her job with e help of The Above..only GOD decides everything...but must stay positive n keep trying lar..
i will ask her first if anyone reali keen to try..can pm me for her contact.

hhhmm.......can i check how does the massage helps us arrr ????

kind to share ur problems wif us n how the massage aids u ???

 

[jal]

Dun give up hope..if i can u also can cos i am 33 this yr and i did a laser cone biopsy last yr and my chance of pregnancy is only 50%. After heard that was rather disappointed and depressed but then we didnt give up hope and we know if we keep trying and doing it rite i will conceive. And Now i am 13 weeks preggy.

Oh really? :0) What is laser cone biopsy???
This morning, my menses came again.....
Been trying since last Dec...
When will good news come~~~~~~~~~~~~~

 

[jal]

Hihi...

Wanna share wit u all..i was 26 wen married in 2004..only after 3yrs n 3mths finally conceived..my 4th yr wedd aniv came out my little joy too. i got no prob with my menses,always regular..we tried every time but no results till even go chkup hospital found both nothing wrong...every now n then i will breakdown n cry..somemore the pressure comin fm family,relatives n frens who keep asking wen, wen, wen...haiz...
then i decided to ask my fren to recc me her post natal massage who has helped her conceive too..so after 3x massage, VOILA! im pregnant...after 3rd x, the lady sms me to chk wether i preg or not..dat time AF havnt come..she sensed i oready preg n ask me go chk but i wait few more days n reali am preg..SOO happy..now my son comin to a yr dis sat..how time flies...now e pressure with me being a sahm taking care of him plus 5 cats at hm...soo Pls dun stop trying n dun giv up...

Hi Zie,

Thank you so so much for sharing with us. I appreciate it.
Each time I see my menses come, I try my best to control my tears.
Each time I see my menses come, I can't help but feel my biological clock is ticking away.
Each time my menses come, how I wish I can turn back the time so that I could start trying for a family earlier.

 

[jal]

Oink,

Me too had cyst till i gav birth its still there..but doesnt affect fertility..b4 dat we had even wen for iui once but failed so nvr try again..
Well doctors found nothing wrong with us but actually there realli something wrong with me that doc cant detect...hah..thanks to e massage lady who able to detect wats wrong wit me..Its no massage centre, just a normal lady who comes to my hse to do post natal massages.if only i knew earlier to consult her then wudnt hav to wait soo long.. GOD has test me for something dat i did wrong b4..dats y hard to conceive..

Hi Zie,

You mentioned that it is a malay auntie. So does this mean that it is a Javanese massage???

 

[pei]

Zie
Pls PM me the contact of the Malay massage lady and many thanks in advance

 

[zie]

Hi Zie,

You mentioned that it is a malay auntie. So does this mean that it is a Javanese massage???

Zie
Pls PM me the contact of the Malay massage lady and many thanks in advance

hi,
been bizi cos attend funeral..my hb late grandpa jus passed away 2 days ago..

jal,

yar its traditional malay massage..can say its javanese..

pei, marlysha
hav pm u her contact u requested..

hope my sharing wit u all can help boost ur desire ttc...:001_302:

 

[jal]

hi,
been bizi cos attend funeral..my hb late grandpa jus passed away 2 days ago..

jal,

yar its traditional malay massage..can say its javanese..

pei, marlysha
hav pm u her contact u requested..

hope my sharing wit u all can help boost ur desire ttc...:001_302:

You said that she lives in Bukit Panjang right? I stay right in the north-east, so I dun think she will want to come...