Preference of age gap when TTC-ing for the next child ?

[CynCyn]

Preference of age gap when TTC-ing for the next child ?

 

[jedamum]

depends on what you want.
for your kids to play together = close age gap
to have sufficient time for both your kids = wide age gap

 

[lisa_ng]

preferbly 2 yrs ba. my sis & 1 also 2 yrs different we very close to each other also. but never tot of 2nd for now. tired...:tlaugh:

 

[Leanne]

Prefer 3-4 yrs.

But most prob 4-5 yrs for the next one.

 

[Carol]

Hopefully 3 to 4 yrs :001_302:

 

[taSha's eLmo]

3 yrs would be nice for me..

 

[XiaoXue]

Prefer 2 to 3 years but now our is 5 going on to 6 years gap..

Hopefully when everything settle down nicely.. #2 shall estimate arrive in 2009.. which is 7 years gap.. =)

In my view.. I wished for the best for my kid.. now Hubby & I are both working hard for our future, we have little time for Skye & ourselves.. Thus is still not the time #2 shall come.. for teaching kid nowaday is no longer easy.. If I'm unable to teach 1 kid the right way & path, I dun think I can for another.. =)

 

[xiaodaisy]

2 yrs ba.. coa i tink like dat den dey can be more close wen dey grow up ba..

 

[LoVeS]

ideal is 2-3yrs but close factory.

 

[stonston]

for me n hb ideal is 1-2yrs....but now aiming for 2 yrs cos we dun want yr-end bb.....
we dun wanna drag too long....e earlier e older one has a sibling, e earlier he learns more social skills cos gotta learn to share n show concern for e younger one
dun want to be @ e age where all he feels is jealousy then intro a new sibling to him....seen my couz with kids age gap ard 5-7 yrs, all had big problems....

 

[jedamum]

.. If I'm unable to teach 1 kid the right way & path, I dun think I can for another.. =)

Totally Agree!

this reason is more valid that reasons of 'If i am unable to give my kid the BEST in life, I dun think I can for another.'

:nah:

 

[precious*baby]

for me i prefer 2-3yrs

 

[XiaoXue]

seen my couz with kids age gap ard 5-7 yrs, all had big problems....

I think this again gotta do with family bring up... my elder sis is 1978, 2nd sis 1979, me 1986 and younger sis 1992... all of us is kinda close but elder sis & 2nd sis might have conflicts at time.. doesn't mean 1 yr apart = good..

I got no probs with all of them.. althrough @ time, we might have a little disagreement but seldom.. elder sis & younger sis age gap is 14 yrs but nope.. they do not have big probs.. =D

 

[stonston]

I think this again gotta do with family bring up... my elder sis is 1978, 2nd sis 1979, me 1986 and younger sis 1992... all of us is kinda close but elder sis & 2nd sis might have conflicts at time.. doesn't mean 1 yr apart = good..

I got no probs with all of them.. althrough @ time, we might have a little disagreement but seldom.. elder sis & younger sis age gap is 14 yrs but nope.. they do not have big probs.. =D

xx big prob not in terms of behaviour towards each other....got many other hidden probs in daily life....

 

[XiaoXue]

xx big prob not in terms of behaviour towards each other....got many other hidden probs in daily life....

icic.. 家家有本难念的经。。

 

[spoonie]

i prefer 2-3 years... after my first child know how to walk and talk reasonably well... then she can be my little helper like ask her help me get diapers etc for her baby sibling hehehehe...
main reason is also because... giving birth is so painful!!!! maybe we will plan for another baby after i 'forget' the pain

 

[Pwiincess]

I would prefer their age difference to be 2 years. So, plan about a year from your 1st BB's birth.

 

[Ralia]

me n my DH's ideal is 3-5 yrs... as i haf already placed an IUD car Meranda... As wat i tink is tat when DS is abt tat age, he can help to take care of e younger sibling...

 

[`julee]

2-3 years preferably.
but looking at things, i tink we'll take our time.. my case more like xx.. will hav #2 onli wen we stable...

 

[himawari]

When she is two, i might try for the 2nd one. 3 yrs gap wil be ideal for me.