hi mums,
just need to vent myself out and see whether im the Abnormal Demanding mum/wife.
my hubby will be away from SG for 3 weeks end of this month.
beforehand, he only say he might be going. but without much discussion, he just simply agreed to his boss to go for this trip. after agreeing then he told me about it.
really pissed off with my hubby and this issue cant be solved at all. everytime when we talk about this, sure have alot of arguements n im so sick of it!
i totally gave up giving my opinion or comment further coz i see no point in talking at all.
my girl is only 7months old. we live on our own house. my place, not near to the mrt, need to walk about 10mins to the bus stop then another 3 stops to the mrt. quite troublesome actually.
i have to push the pram daily to work coz my girl attends the infant care above my office. with my hubby around, he will drive us up and down. but now, i dunno how to handle.
with no other choices, i had to move to my mum place for 3 weeks n sleep on the mattress or the sofa every night. bb gets to slp at the yao lan. ya, more people to acc us and look aft bb. im happy.
but the part on, agreeing to go for the company business trip pissed me off seriously.
to add on, there're no extra allowance. co give about 80euros per day. n he has to pay for his meals on his own. meals not inclusive in the trip. horrible n stingy co. n worst, dont even need to think about promotion in the co coz its a small co with less than 10 staffs. we argued multiple times and i foresee this is going to be never ending argue until he leaves this co which i dont he will. its almost like a monthly trip. sometimes 3 days. 5 days. 1 week. to batam, malaysia, germany, london. i guess china will be up soon.
another reason that makes me opposing all these trips, other than the less time spent with me n baby, i simply dont trust man going overseas and being a "good" man. its not talking about how i SHOULD trust my hubby. but i believe, given chances like this would increase the possibility of having affair outside. well, i dont need his money coz i paid for my own expenses and all baby's expenses. talking about earning more money for the family, i dont think there's even a need coz we're already comfortable now. i rather not earn more and have a simple stable job.
would any dads out there leave their wife n young kid at home for such a long period?
just need to vent myself out and see whether im the Abnormal Demanding mum/wife.
my hubby will be away from SG for 3 weeks end of this month.
beforehand, he only say he might be going. but without much discussion, he just simply agreed to his boss to go for this trip. after agreeing then he told me about it.
really pissed off with my hubby and this issue cant be solved at all. everytime when we talk about this, sure have alot of arguements n im so sick of it!
i totally gave up giving my opinion or comment further coz i see no point in talking at all.
my girl is only 7months old. we live on our own house. my place, not near to the mrt, need to walk about 10mins to the bus stop then another 3 stops to the mrt. quite troublesome actually.
i have to push the pram daily to work coz my girl attends the infant care above my office. with my hubby around, he will drive us up and down. but now, i dunno how to handle.
with no other choices, i had to move to my mum place for 3 weeks n sleep on the mattress or the sofa every night. bb gets to slp at the yao lan. ya, more people to acc us and look aft bb. im happy.
but the part on, agreeing to go for the company business trip pissed me off seriously.
to add on, there're no extra allowance. co give about 80euros per day. n he has to pay for his meals on his own. meals not inclusive in the trip. horrible n stingy co. n worst, dont even need to think about promotion in the co coz its a small co with less than 10 staffs. we argued multiple times and i foresee this is going to be never ending argue until he leaves this co which i dont he will. its almost like a monthly trip. sometimes 3 days. 5 days. 1 week. to batam, malaysia, germany, london. i guess china will be up soon.
another reason that makes me opposing all these trips, other than the less time spent with me n baby, i simply dont trust man going overseas and being a "good" man. its not talking about how i SHOULD trust my hubby. but i believe, given chances like this would increase the possibility of having affair outside. well, i dont need his money coz i paid for my own expenses and all baby's expenses. talking about earning more money for the family, i dont think there's even a need coz we're already comfortable now. i rather not earn more and have a simple stable job.
would any dads out there leave their wife n young kid at home for such a long period?