yes, he already not interest in the family and the wife, it will be a miracle if he agree to let her go for 'happy hours'. Anyway, Saturday's evening where have happy hours?she haven't ask i already know the answer will be no.
is things better now?he dont want to talk or share with me if he really had problems or somethings in his mind, he just want to keep to himself,
rather smoke alone whole night sitting or lying at the sofa, he can whole night playing his mobile games too.
go to work early, come back late night, weekend or public holidays working, I bet he work this 1st May Labour Day too, now
already 10.00pm +++, he still not back yet.
still the same.is things better now?
hi Itsy BitsyYanZee,
if things does not get better and you have no chance to talk to him at all, perhaps you can try to write him a letter?
Mail it to his office, address it to him. But make sure no one has access to open his mails / letters, e.g secretary.
Write to him, ask him how long will he behave like that.
the family needs him, your kids need him and miss him a lot.
tell him, things will not get better if he does not give you and himself a chance to talk.
if he has problems or worries, share it with you, and try to work out the solution.
if not for himself or you, then do it for the children's sake.
perhaps you could also send him cards occasionally, just to say have a nice day etc.
hope things will get better for both of you.
hi, from what i read, it's really make u feel being used to satisfy his sexual needs.hi, yesterday night saw him peep & stand for awhile outside our daughters room, ask him what happen to him all this while, very "cool" treatment, don't want to talk to me & spend quality times with our daughters, he just walk away, went back inside my room when he starter to smoke, come out later see what he doing, saw him doing that himself, scold him say how if suddenly our daughters comes out to washroom, what will they think, what daddy is doing, he suddenly approach me for that, push him away, hold me tightly & starter to kiss & touch me, carry me back inside our room (the rest you know, no need to describe), quite lengthy, slight pain only, maybe due to long time, didn't do already, this morning ask him what happen last night, suddenly, silence all the way to the MRT station & drop me off later, still thinking what really happen to him last night suddenly approach me doing that, what do you all think too ?
he is not thinking of u, men can make love to a stranger when they have needs.at least I'm still in his mind if he really used me to satisfy his sexual needs but I don't think so with his cool treatments to me lately.
ic, out of sudden he yesterday night, luckyly my period just over, if not, I also dont know how, if he really wants to continue,he is not thinking of u, men can make love to a stranger when they have needs.
no more as he used to be last time before our 2nd daughter is born, he is back to his cool treatments again as if nothing is happen last Wednesday night. : ( ........YanZee
does he still help to u if u say things like, can you carry my bag for me? can you close the door for me?