Any malay/muslim mummies ard???

[Fadeela]

my 1st i was induced to water bag leaking and my fluid was lower. I was put on piston pill for 2 days and my cervix actually dilated and open up to 3cm without any contraction pain. But lepas dah burst waterbag & put me on drip... subhannallah sakitnya tuhan aje yang tau. you guys will experience if being induced. I heard natural pain can be endured anyway bila mine bukak sampai 3cm tak rasa pape. But after 12 hours labour on epidural i normal birth. Actually i tak tunggu sampai bukak 10cm pun i dah start teran. Pasal bila baby nak kluar tu dah mcm nak terberak cirit birit mcm mana nak tahan lagi.

Anyway I had bad experience in KKH jugak but not as bad as what themissus experience. This time round I engaging a specialist from NUH, Dr Anna.

Wondershine - the sling is very useful and convenient. Anyway I use it bila kluar it helps me to cover up too during breastfeeding.

 

[Bayu]

Mummy Bayu - I bought the medela pump during my 1st baby, sakit lah pakai the pump esp lama sikit. But of cos easier lah when sometimes a feeding time yr baby masih tido and the breast dah start to harden before the bengkak the pump helps and its fast lah. I think its better for baby to latch on.

As for the activeness during pregnancy, i was also fit during my 1st child like you i love to walk rather than take bus. tapi this 2nd child really different and i wasnt as fit. So pikir pasal nak jalan kaki mcm penat ah...

My daughter is 2 year 3 month now, and also like to ask me to carry but i dont dare to care her now becos of her weight she is 18 kg. But for me i ada maid so my bibik will carry her tapi kesian lah kadang2 she keep on repeating " Mak dokong" tak sampai hati i just carry her a while esp after back from work.

tu lah.. i read a lot of reviews abt this pump.. but wat to do.. i already made the deal and i will try to use it as much as i can when im back to work.. r u a stay at home mum fadeelah?

i still carry him every now and then.. he is so manja with me now.. he only listens to me.. when he wants to listen lah.. ;-).. n he wants me to carry him ... he still blom pandai cakap sgt tats y he cry or merengek wen he wants something.. sometimes .. sometimes jer he will rub my tummy and say baby with his cute smile... but my hubby dah warning not to carry him by next mth.. takut jadi apa2..
my mother in law is taking care of him but she dah takleh carry him sgt.. she's already 60+ .. tak larat..

 

[Fadeela]

tu lah.. i read a lot of reviews abt this pump.. but wat to do.. i already made the deal and i will try to use it as much as i can when im back to work.. r u a stay at home mum fadeelah?

i still carry him every now and then.. he is so manja with me now.. he only listens to me.. when he wants to listen lah.. ;-).. n he wants me to carry him ... he still blom pandai cakap sgt tats y he cry or merengek wen he wants something.. sometimes .. sometimes jer he will rub my tummy and say baby with his cute smile... but my hubby dah warning not to carry him by next mth.. takut jadi apa2..
my mother in law is taking care of him but she dah takleh carry him sgt.. she's already 60+ .. tak larat..

Mummy Bayu, Im a working mother. My daughter blum understand abt she getting new siblings lah. just last week i carried her nak pass singapore & malaysia customs. And that night i ade bleeding but take sakit or what but im not sure whether it becos of the carrying. But hopefully next week i go check up everything is fine.
For my daughter i ade maid kat rumah jaga like you mention both my mum & MIL dah tak larat lagi jaga lagi2 anak i nie berat lah for her age

 

[Ummi]

Ummi : Masya Allah.. sampai hati dorang say like tat... sometimes dey just want to ignore our frustration of going for checkups and end up no results.. sabar jer.. but sometimes u have to be garang sikit.. if u don't dey do as they please.. hmmpphh..

themissus : insya Allah.. we will try to help.. but u must be metally prepared once baby is home with u.. u will need help from ur hubby and ur love ones to overcome the tiredness and stress. . hehehe

bayu... the abv experience tu belongs tu themissus~ kesian kan dgr...

 

[Bayu]

bayu... the abv experience tu belongs tu themissus~ kesian kan dgr...

ooppss... salah lah nie.. hehehe... kesian lah kalau kena mcm tu..

 

[Ummi]

Anyway my fren was asking me...if im going for urut in my 7 mths.. so that baby is in the right position for delivery.. any comments on that?

 

[RamblingMummy]

Hi ummi, yup hving 3 girls is fun coz can dress them up. Becoz of dat, expenditure also increases coz need to spend more money since they love to dress up...hehe... But Allah has His plans. So this must be the best for us.

My labour for my 2 girls were fast alhamdulillah.
My 1st one had to be induced coz my water lvl was low and i was already 2cm dilated. Induce was painful but alhamdulillah i gave birth between 1 to 1.5hrs coz my contractions came fast n i was fully dilated.

My 2nd one was even faster. Felt back pain, hubby and i sent my doter to my mum's plc, went to kj
Kkh (cldnt walk by then so hubby had to wheel me) and gave birth.

I hope the next one wld be easy too coz im diagnosed wif low lying placenta so hoping it'll move up if not hv to go for c-section.

My gynae is Dr K T Tan.

 

[Bayu]

Mummy Bayu, Im a working mother. My daughter blum understand abt she getting new siblings lah. just last week i carried her nak pass singapore & malaysia customs. And that night i ade bleeding but take sakit or what but im not sure whether it becos of the carrying. But hopefully next week i go check up everything is fine.
For my daughter i ade maid kat rumah jaga like you mention both my mum & MIL dah tak larat lagi jaga lagi2 anak i nie berat lah for her age

its best not to carry her too long.. not too sure if its the cause for u to bleed... but do u feel pain tak wen it bleed? i hope nothings wrong... if tak sakit i think she be ok.. nothings wrong i guess...

i went to malacca 2 weeks ago.. and i had to carry him most of the time bila kat train station.. we took ktm sampai tampin melaka.. after tat my relatives lah yg jaga dier.... but wen we got back to spore.. we naik train jugak..at nite.. so he sleeps all the way on my tummy... he dun want to sleep with his ayah.. so terpaksa lah letakkan dier on my badan... nasib baik no one beside me so the other seat is empty.. penat sgt i lay him on the other seat tapi i need to squeez in a bit coz his head terlanggar the handle... heheh.. nasib baik takder apa2.. but nowadays if i go out i seldom bawak dier sekali coz dier slalu nak dukung

 

[Bayu]

Anyway my fren was asking me...if im going for urut in my 7 mths.. so that baby is in the right position for delivery.. any comments on that?

my mum said its good so that baby position tak melintang .. i mean in da rite position lah.. if orang kampong.. by 7 mths dey will do da urut to get the baby to be in da rite position..

 

[mosqeetoh]

fadeela - i recall being sexually active during my first, so i guess diff pregnancy diff experience! 11 yrs break made me forgot how the first pregnancy and labor felt like, other than that i think shld be confident to care for baby la

Bayu - congratz on the 2nd one, we're in the same ship age-wise heheh... i'm 34 now and I was 23 when I had my first! Now so tak larat like that! limbs all feel longgar all the time. But i must be grateful, its easier for me since my boy is already turning 11 and can help me out at home. Even grocery he carries for me nowadays, such a gentleman LOL

I enjoy the pre-natal massage. I heard the oldies mention something abt lenggang perut (is there such a thing?) at 7 mths. Now that i feel heavier and even more loose-limbed i intend to have a massage mthly inshaAllah.

 

[Fadeela]

mosqeetoh - what is this lenggang perut? is it a function or massage? If ikut adat org india esp hindu they have such a function at 7th month but salah bagi org islam ikut. But some indian muslim in singapore do follow that adat which i believe ultimate rubbish. But if its just a massage at 7th month no problem.

Any of you practice those cukur rambut functions???

 

[Ummi]

Hi ummi, yup hving 3 girls is fun coz can dress them up. Becoz of dat, expenditure also increases coz need to spend more money since they love to dress up...hehe... But Allah has His plans. So this must be the best for us.

My labour for my 2 girls were fast alhamdulillah.
My 1st one had to be induced coz my water lvl was low and i was already 2cm dilated. Induce was painful but alhamdulillah i gave birth between 1 to 1.5hrs coz my contractions came fast n i was fully dilated.

My 2nd one was even faster. Felt back pain, hubby and i sent my doter to my mum's plc, went to kj
Kkh (cldnt walk by then so hubby had to wheel me) and gave birth.

I hope the next one wld be easy too coz im diagnosed wif low lying placenta so hoping it'll move up if not hv to go for c-section.

My gynae is Dr K T Tan.

hee~ yes dressing up is fun!! furthermore the clothes for girls are more variety.. leggings la.. hairbands la... cute3~

but yes Allah definitely has better plans for us...

im not sure of the kesahihannya.. but i heard many times regarding this : Barangsiapa mempunyai tiga anak perempuan atau tiga saudara perempuan atau dua anak perempuan atau dua saudara perempuan lalu dia bersikap ihsan dalam pergaulan dengan mereka dan mendidik mereka dengan penuh rasa takwa serta bertanggungjawab, maka baginya syurga..

so...

hopefully the 3rd will be an easy one for u too.. insya Allah!

and thanks for sharing ur experience!

 

[Ummi]

mosqeetoh - what is this lenggang perut? is it a function or massage? If ikut adat org india esp hindu they have such a function at 7th month but salah bagi org islam ikut. But some indian muslim in singapore do follow that adat which i believe ultimate rubbish. But if its just a massage at 7th month no problem.

Any of you practice those cukur rambut functions???

i think what my fren referring to is just a massage.. coz i never heard of having a function at 7th month..

cukur rambut yes... but making a function i dont think so..but again up to individual...

quoted :
Dalam Islam, Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda, “Tiap-tiap anak itu tergadai dengan akikahnya yang disembelih untuk dia ketika hari ketujuh dan dicukur, lalu diberi nama.” (Riwayat Ahmad dan disahkan oleh Turmudzi)

Berdasarkan kepada hadis ini, ulama menyatakan bahawa Rasulullah s.a.w. menggalakkan umat Islam yang dikurniakan cahaya mata supaya melakukan akikah pada hari ketujuh. Kemudiannya, daging akikah tersebut diagih-agihkan kepada golongan fakir miskin.

Mengikut sunah, apa yang dilakukan oleh Baginda kepada cucunya, Hasan dan Husin, apabila jatuh hari ketujuh diadakan akikah adalah memberikan nama dan mencukur rambut mereka berdua. Rambut tersebut ditimbang dan disamakan dengan nilai perak dan kemudiannya disedekahkan kepada fakir miskin.

 

[Bayu]

Good morning mummies...

How r u today ladies?? how's ur baby bump now... i had a bit of cramps on my below tummy and legs.. walk too fast pasal nak elakkan lion dance at one of the comp building just now.. segan dgn tat dance lah.. hehehe.. anyway.. i hope u all will have a great day today.. Amin..

Mosqeetoh : lenggang perut isit yang they massage and ada doa selamat where they all the makcik2 will recite some prayers for us while we being massage??

 

[Ummi]

Good morning mummies...

How r u today ladies?? how's ur baby bump now... i had a bit of cramps on my below tummy and legs.. walk too fast pasal nak elakkan lion dance at one of the comp building just now.. segan dgn tat dance lah.. hehehe.. anyway.. i hope u all will have a great day today.. Amin..

Mosqeetoh : lenggang perut isit yang they massage and ada doa selamat where they all the makcik2 will recite some prayers for us while we being massage??

Good Morning!

Alhamdulillah ummi-to-be here is fine... just so glad its Friday!! hehehe...
baby bump getting rounder... felt that my tummy stretched! but im so loving the changes on my tummy.. hehehe...
yup2~ hope u u all have a blessed Friday and a great weekend! wheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey~

 

[Fadeela]

i think what my fren referring to is just a massage.. coz i never heard of having a function at 7th month..

cukur rambut yes... but making a function i dont think so..but again up to individual...

quoted :
Dalam Islam, Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda, “Tiap-tiap anak itu tergadai dengan akikahnya yang disembelih untuk dia ketika hari ketujuh dan dicukur, lalu diberi nama.” (Riwayat Ahmad dan disahkan oleh Turmudzi)

Berdasarkan kepada hadis ini, ulama menyatakan bahawa Rasulullah s.a.w. menggalakkan umat Islam yang dikurniakan cahaya mata supaya melakukan akikah pada hari ketujuh. Kemudiannya, daging akikah tersebut diagih-agihkan kepada golongan fakir miskin.

Mengikut sunah, apa yang dilakukan oleh Baginda kepada cucunya, Hasan dan Husin, apabila jatuh hari ketujuh diadakan akikah adalah memberikan nama dan mencukur rambut mereka berdua. Rambut tersebut ditimbang dan disamakan dengan nilai perak dan kemudiannya disedekahkan kepada fakir miskin.

Ummi - I totally agree with you im really against with this cukur2 rambut lepas 40 hari lah... some buat marhaban2 tu smua bukan sunnah nabi. Just want to highlight this matter to our muslim mummies. But its up to individual. Skrg dlm singapore dah byk org ikut adat lah no more following sunnah or al quran. My family tak pernah buat such functions.... Hopefully this pegangan pada sunnah tu will continue to the generation after us.

 

[Fadeela]

Anyway , any of you mummies ade a lot of discharge during early pregnancy. Mine was very thick and selalu kluar after i buang air kecil. Anything to be alarm of?

 

[Sweetoothz]

Assalamualaikum ladies...

i am so glad i found this thread!!!

i'll b 25 weeks preggers tmr and already cant wait for the bb to b in my arms!! i'm carrying a gal n this will b my first! =)) i'll b gg to GlenE n my gynae is Dr Gordon Tan. =))

 

[Sweetoothz]

Anyway , any of you mummies ade a lot of discharge during early pregnancy. Mine was very thick and selalu kluar after i buang air kecil. Anything to be alarm of?

guess not cz im in my 2nd trimester n i still do have those yucky, whitish and stringy discharge... sorry for the much info... hee!

 

[Bayu]

Ummi - I totally agree with you im really against with this cukur2 rambut lepas 40 hari lah... some buat marhaban2 tu smua bukan sunnah nabi. Just want to highlight this matter to our muslim mummies. But its up to individual. Skrg dlm singapore dah byk org ikut adat lah no more following sunnah or al quran. My family tak pernah buat such functions.... Hopefully this pegangan pada sunnah tu will continue to the generation after us.

ok.. i was like sad wen i cannot do majlis cukur rambut for my 1st son.. n my hubby told me its not important.. i tot its a must.. and i never did coz at tat time we have financial difficulties.. i wanted to do for my 2nd insha Allah.. but after reading this.. i think i dun waste money lah.. its not a "wajib" thing to do kan.. so better save the money for other things...

Sweetoothz : Welcome and congratz on ur pregnancy... take good care of urself and hope we can share any tips during our pregnancy here..