WeeFee's_Mummy
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becos i am. FTWM (for now), so bb spends all weekdays w/ MIL. i will still rush home in time to spend abt 1 hr with bb before he sleeps for the night though.
so with such little time with my son, i expect to have him all to myself & my own family on weekends. except that the past few weekends, whenever i bring my bb to the living room to catch a little sun & to play, my MIL will conveniently plonk herself next to us (i'm staying w/ ILs) & start playing with bb too. then of cos naturally my son will auto look @ her & laugh with her etc (becos he spends so much time w/ her mah). it makes me a little annoyed!
one weekend, after bb's second jab he developed a fever, so we were all worried. was trying to feed him but he didn't drink v much (appetite loss). my MIL plonked herself down next to us, conveniently helped herself to his bottle & tried to feed him! i was extremely annoyed becos i was already worrying myself silly abt his fever, & here my MIL comes & barges into the picture.
another weekend, i had brought bb out for a walk becos he refused to sleep that afternoon, so i thought here's a chance to spend some quality time & get some outdoors air too. the minute i stepped home, MIL grabs him from me & says "come here my little prince grandma hasn't seen you at all today!"
it's a lot of these little things that rattle my feathers a bit. i mean, she gets to spend five full days taking care of him. he responds to her, he already knows who she is. so why can't she leave me alone with him on my weekends?
& when she passes blunt remarks like how she misses him so much etc, it makes me think ... hey. you've not seen him for only a few hours - wot about my parents?? they've not seen him for over two weeks!!
i hate being petty like this. but i wish she would just naturally take my cue, & not act offended when i keep my bb all to myself on my weekends. i'm after all his mother ... & when we move out into our own house, would she expect to be seeing him everyday too??
anyone else as petty & possessive as me???!!!!
so with such little time with my son, i expect to have him all to myself & my own family on weekends. except that the past few weekends, whenever i bring my bb to the living room to catch a little sun & to play, my MIL will conveniently plonk herself next to us (i'm staying w/ ILs) & start playing with bb too. then of cos naturally my son will auto look @ her & laugh with her etc (becos he spends so much time w/ her mah). it makes me a little annoyed!
one weekend, after bb's second jab he developed a fever, so we were all worried. was trying to feed him but he didn't drink v much (appetite loss). my MIL plonked herself down next to us, conveniently helped herself to his bottle & tried to feed him! i was extremely annoyed becos i was already worrying myself silly abt his fever, & here my MIL comes & barges into the picture.
another weekend, i had brought bb out for a walk becos he refused to sleep that afternoon, so i thought here's a chance to spend some quality time & get some outdoors air too. the minute i stepped home, MIL grabs him from me & says "come here my little prince grandma hasn't seen you at all today!"
it's a lot of these little things that rattle my feathers a bit. i mean, she gets to spend five full days taking care of him. he responds to her, he already knows who she is. so why can't she leave me alone with him on my weekends?
& when she passes blunt remarks like how she misses him so much etc, it makes me think ... hey. you've not seen him for only a few hours - wot about my parents?? they've not seen him for over two weeks!!
i hate being petty like this. but i wish she would just naturally take my cue, & not act offended when i keep my bb all to myself on my weekends. i'm after all his mother ... & when we move out into our own house, would she expect to be seeing him everyday too??
anyone else as petty & possessive as me???!!!!